我是农村出身一穷二白...

in hive-193186 •  4 years ago 

我是农村出身一穷二白的家庭，父母辈对自己帮不上多大的忙，有的时候觉得无奈，更觉得很无能。后来想开了，你看现在哪个不啃老，自己能独立其实真的已经很不错了。

可悲的是自己从小很听话，父母说什么就是什么，从来不知道反驳那种，这就造成了缺乏主见的能力，生活中遇到问题，很多时候仍然还会问问父母该怎么办才好。

结果呢，往往没有多大用处，因为父母辈和自己的生活是有代沟的，他们理解不了现在的社会，总是用过去的经验去对待现在的一切。

久而久之我也不在那么依赖了，要想突破就必须结交更多的有能力的人，这才有机会获得更多的机会，人际关系其实就是价值交换，多帮助别人也能得到别人的帮助的。

几年来收获很多，确实思维开阔了，自此总结出一个经验，父母如果没有成就那事业上就不要请教他们了，多像那些老板们学习才能站的高看的远。

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      ·  4 years ago 

    的确是这样

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        ·  4 years ago 

      你好鸭，xiaoxing!

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          ·  4 years ago 

        父母是长辈，也是老师，老板是长辈，也是老师，更像父母。!shop

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            ·  4 years ago 

          说的真好

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              ·  4 years ago 

            父母的建议，可能受限于他们身处的环境和认知。并不一定是利于我们的。虽然父母是爱孩子的。我和孩子爸买房就是背着父母的。因为他们知道了就一棍子打死了。很多想法都扼杀了。

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                ·  4 years ago 

              生活不易且行且珍惜

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                  ·  4 years ago 

                确实不容易啊

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                    ·  4 years ago 

                  表示认同

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                        ·  4 years ago 

                      看图漂亮进来的，靠自己才是最好的，父母能帮助固然好，父母他们以前又有谁帮助呢？

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