想不到的事

in hive-193186 •  3 years ago 

想不到的事

我在微信上发了一条动态，有一个认识了很多年的朋友给我评价了，出于好奇就和他聊了几句，这才得知原来这些年一直过的不好。

她说她老公一直不工作，一直在拿着照看孩子的名义吃喝玩乐，没事的时候就打麻将赌博，就这样度过了十来年，最大的孩子已经16岁，更让我想不到的她说她老公正在等着卖女儿还债。

我挺惊讶的，现在竟然还有这样的事情，我问她到底是怎么回事？

她说她老公现在欠了很多钱，就在指望着把大女儿嫁出去，然后要很多彩礼这不就是变相的没孩子吗？

我瞬间明白是怎么回事了，不只是她，现在很多高额彩礼都是这么来的，表面上是因为攀比其实说白了就是变着花样卖孩子。

她家女儿才16岁啊，还在上学的年龄，应该好好上学，长大后有个好出路才对，如果早早的嫁人了，几乎可以肯定百分百是会后悔的。

有些女人就是脾气太好了，明知道日子过不下去，明知道对方不好，还一直忍让着，一切为了孩子也只是一个借口而已，如果日子过不下去，真还不如离婚了，结婚是为了幸福。离婚同样也是为了幸福。

家家都有难念的经！有些事情真的想不到，不觉有点想不明白，这个世界到底怎么了？

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      ·  3 years ago 

    家家都有难念的经，都不容易

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        ·  3 years ago 

      家家有本难念的经

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          ·  3 years ago 

        是的

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            ·  3 years ago 

          宁教别人打仔，不教别人分妻。也许他们有不为人知的苦衷。

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              ·  3 years ago 

            有道理

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                ·  3 years ago 

              每个人活着都不容易

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                  ·  3 years ago 

                怎么有这样的人，让人讨厌，女人,孩子可伶。!shop

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                      嫁人不能嫁黄赌毒

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