Betterlife with steemit //5 Ways to gain Self Confidence article by @rajasalman1 //10-05-2021

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Assalam-o-alaikum to all my dear friends.I hope you will be fine and happy and may Allah keep you happy.Today i am going to share very important information and 5 important tips with you and I hope these will be very helpful for you to gain enough confidence
So let's start

Self Confidence

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Self confidence is a attitude to face any fear and a behaviour to control all the life activities and face criticism.
And i think many people are facing this problem especially students and others living in rural areas especially students who live a decent life in the village but when they come to someone's city for higher education they face this kind of problem and they missed alot of opportunities because of a lack of self-confidence so in this regard i want to share some tips to build up self-confidence

1- Face your fears

If you always take risk and have courage to handle all problems and you have a ability to face fears then you are confident but if you afraid of facing every problem then you have lack of confidence so be prepared to face fear at all times to become self-confident
اگر آپ ہمیشہ خطرہ مول لیتے ہیں اور تمام پریشانیوں کا مقابلہ کرنے کی ہمت رکھتے ہیں اور آپ کو خوف کا سامنا کرنے کی صلاحیت ہے تو آپ پراعتماد ہیں لیکن اگر آپ کو ہر پریشانی کا سامنا کرنے سے خوف آتا ہے تو آپ کو اعتماد کا فقدان ہے لہذا خود اعتمادی بننے کے لئے ہر وقت خوف کا
. سامنا کرنے کے لئے خود کو تیاررکھیں

2-Dressing and life style

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Now I'm going to talk about dressing and lifestyle and dressing has great impact on a human personality as well as helps to increase self-confidence because if your life style and dressing is different from others then there is a great impact of your personality on other people and they also wish to follow your lifestyle and ultimately your self confidence build up

3-Try to follow confident people

If you want to increase your confidence then you have to follow confident people that how they deal with thier affairs and what type of attitude and lifestyle they have.
اگر آپ اپنا اعتماد بڑھانا چاہتے ہیں تو آپ کو پراعتماد لوگوں کی پیروی کرنی ہوگی کہ وہ اپنے معاملات کس طرح انجام دیتے ہیں اور ان کا طرز عمل اور طرز زندگی کس طرح کا ہے۔

4-Don't compare yourself with ohers

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Your comparison with others can down your confidence for example when you thought that other people are better or superior than you and you are Inferior and when you think that you are inferior to others you can't do anything in life then you are wrong because it takes hard work to do something that anyone can do.So keep working patiently and don't compare yourself with others

5-Participate in debates and speeches

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Participation is a main and important way to achieve confidence I think this habit should be inculcated in children from school level to participate in speeches and debates.This activity is done in private schools but unfortunately there is no such arrangement in government schools.Thus, when public school students come to study in private schools in big cities, they show a lack of confidence and lose a lot of opportunities.So it is necessary that all students should take part in these activities so that their hesitation can be removed and they can be able to perform all life activities to achieve their goals.

At the end

There are many other ways to increase self confidence but some important are given up which are enough but if you have any tip to build up confidence you can also share
I hope this post will be very useful for you.

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To sir @rashid001
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Your post is very good and I also liked the photography.

Another nice article . i like your effort
keep up the good work :)

Wow a well explained and I formative article to get self-confidence.

All the points you mentioned are well and one can achieve self-confidence by acting upon these points.

Thanks alot brother for admiration
Stay happy