"Marriage for life or Contract Marriage"

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Hello Steem Cameroon Community

Hello friends , I am @aviral123 from India.God bless you all . Today I am going to take participate in this amazing contest that is launched by @chant . The topic is "marriage is for better or for worse till death do us part.” This topic is very interesting and heart touching.

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Wedding is a very beautiful moment. Which everyone wants to feel. Wants to live this moment. But sometimes this beautiful moment turns into a nightmare if one gets married with the wrong person. One starts hating the word marriage. And if marriage happens with a good person then the whole life is filled with happiness.

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What is your understanding of the statement “for better and for worse till death do us part”?

Marriage is beautiful for both the boy and the girl. It is a new beginning of life for both. When a boy and a girl tie themselves in a beautiful bond like marriage, many dreams come along with it. To fulfill those dreams, it is the responsibility of both of them to fulfill each other's dreams and also keep in mind that both respect and love remain equal in this relationship. To keep any relationship beautiful, it is very important to have love and respect. If both of these are lacking then that relationship will not last long and will die.

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Right from childhood, we are taught that once we get married to someone, we have to maintain it till death. No matter how much there is insult, there is no love, even sometimes a person does violent acts like fighting and abusing. It is equal to the effort of a woman to save her marriage. Because if two people separate, break the bond like marriage, then it has a wrong effect on both of their lives, along with the families are also affected.

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Which do you prefer marriage for life or a contract marriage.

I prefer marriage for life, because when you get attached with a person then your feelings, likes, dislikes, taking care of each other are many things that get added in this relationship. that you love to do for each other. If your life partner is good and cares for you a lot, then life becomes a very lovely journey together. Today I am living in such a life long marriage and I am very happy.

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In contract marriage, I feel that you are marrying on conditions, so somewhere feelings do not add up in this relationship. Because you are walking within the conditions and are not able to express your thoughts openly. Look, anger is a different thing. It is the nature of a human being that sometimes one gets angry, but yes, the person who insults you in the society by being your husband, that relationship is painful .

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Do you agree that house chores should not be a role attached to a particular gender?

Not at all, nowadays both men and women are coming out of the house to work. That's why the responsibility of household chores should also be on both, if both work together, then the work will be done soon and there will be no burden on any one. Both men and women should not degrade each other, only then they will be able to fill their married life with happiness and will also be able to establish the ideal of their married life in the society and in the family.

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It is said that man and woman are the two wheels of the vehicle. If even one wheel is less or more, then the balance of the vehicle will deteriorate. Similarly, if both man and woman do every work together, then their relationship will be healthy and strong and they will be able to provide enough time and enough love to each other.

The work of the house is not related to any gender. It can be done by anyone. I believe that instead of putting the responsibility of the work of the house on any one member, all the members of the house should do some work by dividing it. The work will be done quickly and a single person will not even bother.

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Consider yourself a specialist in the field, and share some tips with youths about marriage.?

Today I have been married for 18 years. In these 18 years, I have seen many ups and downs. I have seen anger, love, everything.
Any relationship is like a plant. Whom he has to take care of equally. Just like a plant has to be watered equally, you have to keep doing your effective work to keep your married life beautiful. There is a lot of respect, love, care and children in this, which will have to be given equal attention.

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Marriage is of boys and girls who have grown up in different environments, who have never met each other, nor know each other. It is the responsibility of both the boy and the girl to know and understand each other. Don't impose your views on him, give him the freedom to speak his mind. All this is very important for a healthy relationship. Whatever I have understood and learned from my marriage is that you have to keep trying continuously, to make your marriage more beautiful. With this you will be happy, your family and children will also be happy. . And there is a lot of peace in the mind. Which is difficult to describe.

I would like to say this to our young generation that whenever you choose a life partner for yourself, you must keep in mind that you people have a little bit of nature. it occurs.

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I want to invite my few friends @solperez , @ridwant , @suboohi , @kunwal .

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Greetings

Thankyou 🙏


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Se dice que el hombre y la mujer son las dos ruedas del vehículo . Si incluso una rueda es menor o mayor, el equilibrio del vehículo se deteriorará. De manera similar, si tanto el hombre como la mujer hacen todo el trabajo juntos, entonces su relación será sana y fuerte y podrán brindarse suficiente tiempo y suficiente amor el uno al otro.

Esta analogía es estupenda. Gracias por la invitación. Te deseo suerte.

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This post has been upvoted through steemcurator07. We support quality posts anywhere and with any tags. Curated by: @chant

Thanks alot dear @chant.