Greetings members of the steem Cameroon community 👋I guess we all are doing fine.

To begin with, the coming together of two as(one) husband and wife which was adjourned by God whose main aim was companionship, being a companion of each other, making vows to stand by each other till death part them that a covenant of three husband, wife, and God that union is an endless one in the eyes of God .
Along the way the companionship starts fading due to some reasons.

DIVORCE

This is a stage in marriage life where by a couple have decided to break thier vows they made to each other , part ways, that is breaking the Bond of being husband and wife in the eyes of the law
More over they can't be referred to again as husband and wife .
All marital attachment detached

Also divorce could not only be seen at the eyes of the law but also
As a couple, at the time you break your marriage vows and promises you made to each other, this is also divorce . An example is a couple leaving together without respect for each other, lack of concern, abuses and denial of marital rites such as food and sex from your partner.

MY EXPERIENCE ABOUT DIVORCE

As a single lady that I'm I haven't experienced much
My experience is based in my home (mum& dad) and my neighborhood (direct neighbors.
Marriage being this sweet why divorce , marriage is endurance, tolerance, patience, percevierance submission, it's all these that keeps a home , marriage is pain and gain the is why the vows of marriage say in sicknesses, poverty, riches till death do us apart.
To conclude two people man and woman from different homes Come together to start their own lives (home) , different mindsets , altitude and reasoning it's not an easy thing nor a bed of roses🌹 🌹🌹 its grace you need like I earlier said it's pain and gain you need tolerance and patience to see your Partner in God's image and likeness.

POEM

Oh DIVORCE, marriage a secret and sancfied bond why divorce? 😭
What have you got to do in our homes ?😭
You destroy our homes without mercy
Oh you make all we worked for go in vain, the love, unity and beautiful moments we shared together why😭
You "DIVORCE'' not established by God you make us walk Helter skelter confusing our children.
Both promised till death, is this the end of time ?
The last walk down memory lane finds us crying and alone , with memories of our family and our home
DIVORCE NO NO NO 😭😭😭😭
Our pictures on the walls, memories of every moments fresh in our hearts
"DIVORCE" you render us weak making our dreams uncompleted , we are strong together solid like a rock. There is no right marriage
Waking up every morning without a complete family are my worse days here on earth
You mean the world to me love
We don't need to divorce

Thanks for reading
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