Join me Celebrate the Life of My Late Brother( Died on 29th July 2024 due to Heart Failure)

in hive-195150 β€’Β  3 months agoΒ 

Dear friends on the Steemit platform, it's with heavy hearts that we lost our brother in Arizona (USA) due to heart failure.

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We ended the month with tears 😭 as we lost one of the finest in the family. The one person who values the word β€œfamily”. He was a jovial person and you would hardly see him angry.

Each time he comes to Cameroon, he ensures that everyone is fine as he supports everyone in the family. He was so selfless and anybody in the neighbourhood who approached him for help, he didn't hesitate to show empathy because he understood so well what it means to go to bed on an empty stomach.

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He was funly called β€œhomeboy” because he never for once forgot about his roots. His love for people made the whole neighbourhood shout β€œhomeboy...homeboy...” just because they knew he would not pass without dropping cash for them.

Little did we know that his life on Earth was short. He had been suffering from heart failure for some months and when it was detected, the doctors proposed a heart transplant but he refused. I'm not in the medical field to better explain what he was placed on for years now, a certain machine was adapted to his heart to help boost it to function well.

He was doing so well with the machine adapted to his heart until February this year when he started complaining of a headache. He was rushed to the hospital and it was discovered the heart had completely stopped working the machine adapted to the heart was stocked and blood overflowed to his head and clot. He immediately went into a coma for months and the doctor advised the family to give him honour killing because there was no way he gonna survive.

The wife is in the medical field and understands the pains and the situation and decides to call her kids, to talk with him and she gives him honour killing 😭😭😭😭. It was indeed a tough decision but it was done to allow him to rest.

All this while, we have been grieving and to me, it was like a dream and I was still hoping that someone would wake me up to say it was a lie that he was still alive. It is what it is and we have to accept it.

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He left behind his wife, three kids, mother, sisters and brothers to mourn him. In this life always cherish your loved ones. Constantly check on them because you never know what they are going through.

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Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Oh my God,this is really painful, you have lost a brother and your heart is broken,I believe God knows why it happened that way, let me use this opportunity to sympathize with your family on this painful exit.
An as a steemian I believe that God will feel protect you during this moment of sorrow.
Receive my heart felt sympathy Ma'

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

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It really painful to lost a love one at this time that families are so I love with their family members.
What a lost that makes the family felt sad,
I believe that your brother was a good person in the society looking at his photograph,he was a nice man.
But one thing that really shocked me in life is when the family is looking more fun a person death with take the person out.
My prayers is may the soul of your brother have rest in God's bossom.
I do conduled with you Ma' and the family for the pass on to glory of your believe brother.
May his gentle soul rest in peace,Amen.
Accept my condolences.
#ces-newbie

It is really painful to see our loved ones go and with the thought of not seeing them ever again.

I pray the Lord grant him eternal rest and to you the fortitude to bear the loss. Take heart ma.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

😭😭With heavy hearts, we still give thanks to God. Thank you for your support.

Yea, you do have a point in the last paragraph, not everyone does that. Please accept my condolences, may God keep you family strong. And to his beloved family, God will give them the strength to bear, it's never always easy loosing a loved one πŸ˜”

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

We pray every day for that strength to pull through πŸ™πŸ™.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

This is indeed a very painful one. No one lost a loved one to the cold hands of death and feel happy, I can understand the grief your family is passing through. But who are we to question the creator? He understands better.

I pray the almighty God will grant his soul eternal rest, keep and protect his children and also give the entire family the fortitude to bear such a painful lost.

It is well with you my dear, be strong and be comforted.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Thank you for the words of encouragementπŸ™πŸ™.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

You're welcome

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

This post made me emotional after reading through I know how it feels after losing a loved one, the memories still keeps flashing on your mind, may his soul rest in peace, stay strong ma'am
#sec-newbie

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

We spent sleepless nights just imagining things but it is a reality that he has gone 😭😭. Thank you for your support.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

You are welcome ma'am, be strong please

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

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Losing a loved one is deeply emotional experience 😒 and my heart goes out to you during this difficult time, your brother was indeed an amazing person who made a great impact on so many lives
May the beautiful memories you shared bring you peace and comfort πŸ™

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

His memories will last forever because of the impact he created on other people's lives. Thank you for your supportπŸ™Œ.

You're welcome

Oh my God , May God give peace to your brother's soul and give strength to your entire family to bear this difficult loss.πŸ™πŸ™

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

It's a difficult pill to swallow at this moment but it is what it is. Thank you for your words of encouragement.

I can understand, your sorrow is very big. May God give you the courage to bear this sorrow.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

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This is heartbreaking. May God console you and your family.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

😭😭Heartbreaking indeed and thank you for consoling with us.

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Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Accept my condolences πŸ™

My his soul rest in my dear. Courage

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Thank you for reaching out πŸ™πŸ™. God alone knows why.

Our condolences to you and your family.

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Thank you for reaching out and support πŸ™πŸ™

Such a sudden demise, please accept my heartfelt condolences and I pray that God in His infinite Mercy will give your family the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable Lost

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Thank you for reaching out and for supporting us with prayers πŸ™πŸ™.

May God continue to console you at this trying moment especially your mom.
God will make a way for his wife and children.
Please take heart and be comforted.

So sorry ma’am for what the grief you and the family have to pass through this period of his demise. May the Lord grant you guys strength to bear it and his soul rest in the bosom of of God!!

Β  Β· Β 3 months agoΒ 

Thank you for reaching out and praying for us πŸ™πŸ™.