CLUB 100 💪🌷💪 DANGERS OF APPRECIATION AND PRAISES.

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Hello steem world, it’s always fun to bring to you content that touches your essence of being as a rational human.
In today’s post, I will be sharing my opinion on the dangers of appreciation and praises.

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INTRODUCTION

It’s common to see people say you are the best dancer, you are the best cook, you are the most intelligent, you are the best, the most this and that. This always sounds good as we feel that our efforts are yielding the way we wanted but I’m here to tell you that these praises almost always do more harm than good.
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First, praises limit your spirit to by satisfied with minor achievements. If you score 15/20 and every says you are the most intelligent, it will limit your am ambition thus distracting you from aiming for 18/20 or more.
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Secondly, Most praises are false. Most at times, people tell you what you want to hear. Your friends will always say you are the best in what you do even when you are not doing well. This deceives you to be contented with what is not real. They will say you are the best singer even when you are singing thrash. The consequence is that you will end up disappointed in yourself when you meet people who are actually best at what they do.
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Thirdly, praises causes you to think negative about others who ay even be better than you. When they keep telling you are good you are, you may tend to think that others less than you meanwhile in real essence, you have just been fooled by praises.
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CONCLUSION

In a nutshell, it is good to give praises to those who achieve something but let’s be mindful of the way we shower praises on people because it mind produce adverse effects.
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Wow bro that's so so much beautiful I love it

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Wonderful posts, but I think it depends on the individual's psychology, because for myself, praises will instead motivate me to work harder and do better

good thinking but it all depends on an individual. it does good for some people.

Though this a subjective topic thanks , for the cautiousness