How to know a successful relationship or it will last?

Hello steemian I bring to you seven point for a successful.relationship

1. do you trust your partner: trust is the first and the most important factors in every relationship a relationship without trust is like a fundation on sand same as christainity is base on faith with this they are series of questions to ask yourself
   

• IS your partner reliable and dependable, can you count on your partner as the rock in your life do you play the same role for your partner?

1. Are you and your partner compatible In the aspect of intimacy? :With this the following questions are put in place

• physical
• emotional
• intellectual and shared activities

1. what type of person show up within your relationship:
   

considered the friends in your relationship different friends brings different side of you may be you are more reserved with one another perhaps you may be patient with someone and quarrel with another . The following questions are petinen

• does my worse side show up when am with my partner?
• does my better self show up when am with my partners ? perhaps it is the combination of both
• do I like myself in this relationship?

1. does my partners communication brings you down or up ? With this the following questions are measured ,does your partner communication with others or third party lift you up?or down ?,is your partner communication with you soft or the other way round ,if your relationship suffer ineffective communication the good news is that as long you and your partner are willing improvement can be learned
2. how do you and your partner deals with conflict in the relationship?
   partners with poor conflict resolution skills typically engaged in fight they fight and stayed mad , sometime holding grudges for years they flee and avoid important issues by sleeping them under rag , successful partners have the ability to resolve problem and let it go once the matter is resolved they forgive and forget.
3. how do and your partner handle external adversity and crisises one of the threat of highly successful and enduring relationship is the ability to stand together in the face of external challenges . With this the following are taken into consideration

• do external adversity bring you and your partner closed together or pull you far apart ?
  

• during difficult times do you act like adults or children?

• can you and your partner enjoy bad time or only good times?

1. Do you have compatible financial value? : Numeriouse incident have proven that finance bring disagreement , difference in financial value often appear early in a relationship ? Is your partner happy with what he or own or is they a constant desire to acquire more? are you and your partner able to solve financial difficulties and differences as a team?