Marriage for Life or Contract Marriage?

Hello my steemian frinds, This is my submission for the contest Marriage for Life or Contract Marriage? organised by @chant

I want to invite my three friends to participate in this contest:-

@sacra97
@napito

@sampan

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Modernity, fashion, food habits, freedom of thought, higher education, race for money, lack of family control, disorganization, ego of boys and girls, influence of movies, increasing involvement of internet in all parts of the world, the word marriage means a lot. have changed to an extent. From today till 25-30 years ago centuries were taken as a sacred bond.

But in today's fast era and due to many of the above mentioned reasons, marriage is not being taken so seriously, I had seen earlier that marriages in the society were decided by the will of the elders of the family, with their mutual consent, and The couple used to try to fulfil them for life. But in today's era, no boy or girl is liking the interference of their parents in their life and they are getting married according to their choice.

If there is a very cultured boy or girl, then they get the consent of their family by arranging the marriage of their choice.

What is your understanding of the statement “for better and for worse till death do us part”?

By the way, I myself do not agree much with the old thoughts, and do not mind the marriages between boys and girls, but I believe that the bond of marriage should be so strong that we should maintain it in any condition. Even if something bad is happening with us, those things should be solved by sitting together, Scott, who seems to have the possibility of increasing any estrangement, the couple tied in the bond of marriage should show mutual patience to each other by not giving importance to their small pearls. One should live life with love. Where there is little or no conflict in the family, but for that it is not appropriate to break family or relationships.

It is the responsibility of both the husband and the wife to fulfil the vow taken at the time of marriage to live together in every situation. There is a lot of lack of patience in today's children, they have less time to understand each other, their work also earns a lot, and that's why they are not giving much priority to relationships.

Which do you prefer marriage for life or a contract marriage?

In my own opinion, marriage is the best arrangement for lifelong companionship, there is no importance of centuries for compromise, the lifespan of such marriages is very less. As soon as the fever of physical sex of the couple starts decreasing, their attraction for each other starts decreasing. They start finding faults in each other's small things.

Things that used to be good before, things start to look bad, quarrels increase, and agreements are broken. And the children born from such marriages also have no future, they also get frustrated due to the mistakes of their parents till they grow up. Many times many of these children become criminals because of their aggressive nature. Because these children do not get the values and love that other children get naturally from their parents.

Do you agree that house chores should not be a role attached to a particular gender?

All these things are from very old times, when men used to do outside work and women used to do domestic work. Now in the era of equality anyone can do any work, and should also do it. Such men, whose wives also help them in earning money, should fully help their wives in domestic work. And I saw that now the people of the highest social status who are intelligent, help their wives in every work. This increases mutual harmony and the love between husband and wife also remains intact. No one becomes small or big by working together, this has become the need of today's society. Because both husband and wife are very educated and busy in their respective works.

Consider yourself a specialist in the field, and share some tips with youths about marriage.?

If I were an expert marriage counsellor, I would advise all the young men and women who are interested in marriage that before marriage, they should get complete information about their life partner, their beliefs towards religion, their diet, their nature, their Get married only after knowing your desires, don't get married only by falling in love's attraction because this attraction is physical, which starts decreasing soon. Soon they start falling prey to boredom.

And he advises the married couples to sit in harmony with each other and live life with mutual cooperation, respecting the distant feelings. Never discuss the things of your workplace at home. Never tell the things of your old lover to your life partner. Get a chance, spend time with each other, and make your life happy. Don't fight over small things. When one gets angry, the other remains calm. Husbands should keep on praising the food prepared by their wives and the beauty of their wives, whether true or false. Wives should also support their husbands in any non-coincidence thing. And later convincing him with love. The bond of marriage will last long.

My own is also running since 38 years.

Thanks for reading my point of view