Greetings steemians.
It's a pleasure writing to you this wonderful piece today which is WHY GOOD GIRLS REMAIN SINGLE.
I classify such girls as those who have dedicated their life to God and decided to walk in his ways. They have focused so much on the things of God forgetting that they are things that they have to do while waiting up for Mr. Right to show up.
At 25years they're always still hopeful, that he will show up, at 35, they start asking questions, when is he going to arrive, is it when i clock 40?
Here are a number of reasons why the "GOOD GIRLS" REMAIN SINGLE.
LACK OF SELF IMPROVEMENT
Lots of good girl are always so mindful of the kind of discussion they get themselves engaged and respond to. In an intellectual gathering where topics such as politics, business etc, you will find out they're almost dormant in such areas. On the other hand, when topics about spirituality is brought that's when you get to hear them speak. No man wants to get married to a dull lady in life.SENSE OF PACKAGING
No man even a pastor wants to get married to another man, some good girls become too spiritual that they tend to lose their femininity. Every man loves when his woman keeps her femininity alive with good makeup, dresses, shoes, good shape, smells nice etc. Some girls are deceived by the fact all what matters is a good character and leaving behind that men are naturally driven by what they see. Some even say you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover but most cases books are judged by it's cover because, the cover of a book will laterally define what you can find in that book.
Even Jesus in the book of mark 11 was attracted to the fig tree because he saw how fresh it's leaves were.
3). OVER FAMILIARITY
The good girls have friend zone a whole lot of good guys who hang around them and not realizing that it can begin from friendship and later something bigger. They tend to call them brother every now and then and yet praying for God to bless them with a good man, meanwhile the one God has placed in their lives have been disguised as friends.
4). ZERO SOCIAL LIFE
Many good girls fail to realise that good guys don't live under the same roof with them. Good guys are not only found in churches, but also at events, talk shows, youth summits etc. So the good girls need to go out there so the good guys can see them.
5). HIGH STANDARDS
Some good girls put place very high standards or qualities they will want to see in a man before accepting them, such as he must be handsome, caring, tall, romantic, dresses well, etc sorry to tell you this my dear surely you will have to wait on jesus christ. Am not saying that having standards are wrong but then the standards should be realistic and considerate because no human being is perfect.
After all, am not saying being a good girl is a bad idea for God has a perfect plan for each and every one of us. Its never too late. Your time will come.
These are the very few i could come up with.
Thanks for reading.
Good night.