Hello Everyone, I hope everyone is well. Firstly I would like to thank our honorable admin @ daytona475 for organizing such a beautiful contest. I am now happily joining here. And I'll describe the best moments of my life.
Today I will share with you a happy day in my life.
The feeling of being first parent
I have only heard for so many days that being a father is an absolute joy. Congratulations so far. The joy of being a father can be so deep, I understand now. This is a different feeling. When he calls, he looks me in the eye, what peace he feels when he sees the child's face. There is a different feeling when you take him in your arms. That can’t be taken for granted, ”said Pulak, an artist who recently became the father of a child.
I became the first father. Moonlight in my room now. The Creator gave me the gift of a prince. At one time I was alone. Then a boy holding my hand brought all my boundulepana under strict rules. From then on, my dream will be a complete family. That means we will have children. It took me a while to get my life back on track. Then wait as planned.
Petition to the Creator. He looked up. He opened the door of His mercy and found a new life in my wife's womb. From the first day, that is, when the doctor announced that our child was coming, some kind of change began to take place in me. The feeling of being a parent is really hard to understand.
Slowly in front of my eyes my child is growing in his wife's womb. How many plans with him. Wife's question- Do you want a boy or a boys? I had only one thing - healthy children. Boys and girls don't matter. But I am happier if I am a girl. Because we don't have a girl in our house. I mean, I don't have a sister. I also saw the grief of my parents when I was young. That lack will make up for my child.
I am the father of the child. But in this journey of my wife I have seen what is the role of mother in giving birth to a child. She has suffered a lot in the first three months of her pregnancy. I just watched. There was nothing to do. I could not understand what else to do except to feel the hardships in myself. Even then, taking care of the baby's mother as much as possible, talking to the baby, these things continue. I have heard that children can hear their parents even if they are in the womb. So I talked to him every day according to the rules, I listened to the songs, I listened to the Qur'an. The idea from the beginning was to ensure his (wife's) proper service with a good doctor. That is why the treatment is going on by showing the big doctor of Dhaka.
I get new experiences every day. What to do to keep the unborn child healthy? What if the health of the mother will be better with the child? Etc. I have learned the issues from YouTube, website. How much is the baby day by day? How much is his weight in how many weeks? Trying to know how much, the two of them are anxious. A mother struggles with a number of adversities during her nine-month journey.
Which is what I saw when I became a father. Gradually the child grows up. Then I started to feel movement in my stomach. I felt my child's heart beat with my hands on my stomach and ears. I have heard that the mother has to eat more and more nutritious food in the womb. That's how I tried. But when he (wife) refused to eat due to physical instability, I tried to force feed. She has also tried to deal with everything by thinking of the child and pushing away all instability. Eight months have passed like this.
I live in Dhaka for work. But all my relatives live in Barisal. So it was decided that I would finish the rest of the work in Khulna. There are also good clinic-hospitals. I left him in Barisal. Girls prefer to be with their mother at this time. So I left him with his mother. Although our house is close to their house. That's why my parents are always on the lookout. It is better for the wife to be with her husband at this time. But life is different. Reality has put the two away. Then wait. The doctor did an ultrasonography. However, he could not say exactly what will happen to the child! But he said- maybe it will be a girl.
We didn't want to know that either. We are happier when we are girls. But healthy children were desirable first. My wife is scared. It is a matter of fear. I have to leave everyone and go to the operation theater. Lots of crying. I looked up. There is nothing to do but give peace. I said goodbye to him with a wink in front of everyone. Then wait. The hospital performs about 30/40 caesareans daily. Everyone from different parts of Khulna came here for treatment. It has become a place of trust due to its exceptional treatment at low cost.
We are all sitting. Bangladesh is playing on TV. Everyone is looking at the TV, but I'm looking at the door. I asked the nurses how long after the baby was shown in the operating room. They reported 1 hour later. The nurses brought about 8/10 more babies before my child was born. In other words, one operation is being performed and the child is being taken out and shown to his relatives. It seems that about 20 operations are being done at the same time. I thought. The child does not change again. This is like a child production factory. One by one they are bringing small children wrapped in cloth. What enthusiasm, excitement, joy he has among those who get it. I have no more patience. Instability is working.
In the meantime I saw a nurse come out with a baby. It looks like a sack that encloses with a drawstring. The color of her skin will lose the light of the moon. Everyone rushed to call the baby by name. They told you that you have a beautiful daughter. A flood of joy in everyone's eyes. The boy was first given to my father's lap. The father took his granddaughter in his arms and called for prayers. I saw tears flowing from his eyes. This cry is joy. New guest in our house. Brothers and sisters are taking pictures on their mobile phones. I wanted to know- how is the mother of the daughter? They said the operation was still going on. Give the girl a look. He should be kept with his mother.
They put tokens in the hands of every child. So that it is not difficult to recognize the child with the mother. Then wait for the mother of the child. My baby is beautiful to look at. That's when I named him Subarna in my mind.
The doctor kept the girl and her mother under observation for six hours. We are waiting. In the meantime I took the cabin. Everyone got up in the cabin. I'm sitting. It was six o'clock at 11 o'clock at night. They are going to the cabin with the daughter's mother. The girl was given to me. Small children cannot be taken in the elevator. I walked up the stairs. But at this time I am repeatedly looking at the girl's face. Who looks like gold? Couldn't understand. At this time all the children look the same.
I brought it to the cabin. Everyone is hugging. How much is talking. Some are saying- like me, some are saying- like her mother. I say - have a healthy child, thank God for that. Many of our relatives have daughters at home. They are saying- it would have been better if Sohag had a son. I told them- boys and girls should be children, not adults. The whole month of Ramadan is what I wanted from the Creator.
Gratitude to all, including my relatives, office colleagues, friends, doctors, after the Creator in this journey. Then it's time to name the child. Many have many names. I said call everyone by their own name. Everyone liked the name. The feeling of being the father of the first child cannot be expressed in words. The first daughter on him. Everyone says that the door of good fortune opens for the first child.
Respect and love from all the father of the world
I invite @mdkamran99, @vik24 and @samin1 to participate in this contest and to share your special moment.
Here are all pictures of me and my child
Many thanks to everyone.
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Being parents for the first time is a unique and transformative experience. I'm glad you have a healthy son. Thank you for sharing your special moment with us!
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Many thanks Madam for taking the time to check my post. Madam will always pray for my son.
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