You may be believing that you are independent and can do everything all alone.
But, in reality, it just "looks" that you are independent.
You are dependent on infrastructures like electricity, water, and the internet, which are supported by lots of workers.
In a narrow sense, you can do everything all alone without anybody's help.
In a broad sense, you are supported by someone you don't even know.
If you are in a confusing situation, especially in romantics, like a few guys are asking you out, I would advise you to communicate thoroughly with each guy.
Be honest and true to them.
Even then, the guy who still wants to be with you may be the one for you.
Don't overthink.
The calculating thoughts like "Which guy brings me more money?" may not be a good one lately as life is such a wonder that you won't be able to know what will happen beforehand.
The guy who is currently rich can fail in later life.
I know some people are good at removing such "risks and fortunes" from their lives to lead safe but rather boring lives.
What kind of life would you choose?
You cannot get both safeties and wonder out from your life at the same time.
As Jupiter is in Capricorn and Saturn is in Aquarius, it is difficult to choose something which only benefits you, like having a few girlfriends at the same time.
If you still want it, you need to "improve" yourself much more.
Currently, you are popular because the girls around you believe that you will have only one girlfriend at a time.
The position as your girlfriend looks precious because only one girl is allowed.
If any girls can take the position anytime, it doesn't look attractive at all, and some girls will go and look for another guy.
So, if you want to have lots of attractive girls besides you, you need to be much more attractive than you are now.