In fact, most people's introversion is caused by their low self-esteem. They dare not communicate with other people and are afraid of everything outside.
First of all, it is very important to accept yourself, accept your imperfect self, and build up some self-confidence. Sometimes I think of some particularly embarrassing things I have done, and then I get upset and it takes a long time to get over it. , no matter whether you have done well or badly, accept yourself first, give yourself some gas, and get a car. Then look for why you have low self-esteem and work hard to change it. The more you are afraid of something, the more we have to face it. If you can change your low self-esteem through learning, that would be the best. I feel that the source of low self-esteem for most adults now comes from having no self-esteem. Don’t worry about money. There are many people who have no money, and we are not the only one. Let’s stay energetic and optimistic every day. It is said that people who love to laugh will not have bad luck. If you have good luck, wealth will not be far away. .
Just like when we learn Chinese, just memorizing words and listening comprehension behind our backs, even if we master a large amount of vocabulary, cannot be applied to communication in real life. We need to speak boldly and communicate with others, even if Even if the pronunciation is not accurate, even if it is full of mistakes, as long as the other party can understand it and speaks boldly, there will naturally be a qualitative leap over time.
As long as you are willing to change, you will succeed. Don’t be afraid. Don’t live in the eyes of others. That will be extremely depressing and make you feel inferior more easily. Except for your family, everyone else is a passer-by in your life. After a few years, who still knows each other? Create boldly, bravely venture into things and people that overcome your inner fears.
Top bundle: The other person is rich andAppearance is handsome.
Money is a man’s backbone, appearance is a woman’s passport
Only the poor will use money as dung to numb themselves and cover up their inner failure and unwillingness; the ugly people will constantly emphasize the beauty of their souls and cover up the plainness and ugliness of their appearance.
If you have money, you can do whatever you want; if you have good looks, you can attract countless mirrors
The middle strategy: meet a noble person, find a sugar daddy, find a backer
If the boss says you are good, everyone will think you are good, and everyone will surround you. After a long time, you will also think you are good. You have to work hard for a year. It is better for the leader to give you a promotion.
Doing good deeds is the foundation and determines the lower limit; following the right people is the key and determines the upper limit.
Next strategy: Master a skill and establish skill advantage
Skills are the foundation for a foothold. No matter when and where, you must have
But more than that
The old craftsmen worked hard for 30 years, and the new apprentices used new technologies to surpass them in 30 days.
When technology is valuable, study into it. When technology is not valuable, it is a waste and a waste of personal charm to continue studying about technology.
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