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in human •  5 years ago 

We will never and ever figure out the pain inside each other, because we didn’t use to it, we always judge other actions according to our fancy imagination and perspective, we imagine ourselves playing role of being others and examine the possibilities of actions might be taken place in their position, but we didn’t experience others footage in people life and went through the exact same journey, in pain and joy, in sadness and happiness, pressure and relief so on so forth.

People change at breakpoint of life to better or worse, to good or bad according to our definition of those terms and due to certain environment surrounded by numbers of conditions, circumstances that creating paths that each one of us can’t literally and completely be in shared timeline overlapping with others, still each one has a different path, unique timeline ID such as eye iris or fingerprints, random events are flowing around filling this ID with informations like joyful moments, crises, ceremonies, sadness happiness, love, hate, anger, success, failure, liberalism, capitalism or radicalism, and countless more that distributed differently with randomness in which at the end represent a different path for each individual, shaping personalities, paths from different timelines intersect and share moments, a connection between different paths that set up network with weighted constrains between us(the users/nodes), forming energic actions and shaping the current dialogues to adjust constraints values of connection and change a self and surrounding objects. Technically the system of each person store values in its own database connected to different databases on different networks. But we will never have 100% of the same identical storage and observatory for at least 2 databases.

So when we say “we feel you”, actually not!, in fact we share an event of our timeline simulating another or similar part stored inside our ledger to create connection with others, maybe empathy, compassion and reduce the feeling of loneliness deep inside us, but we don’t actually know how the exact feeling looks like, we didn’t experience the full journey ups and downs to make judgment and give an advice accordingly.

The same for saying “I feel your pain”. well, u completely don’t, u feel mutual pain that has different reasons/causes and results. But the worse one is " if I were u I will act or do it differently“, Seriously!, How did u know that! is it enough to well know urself and put your feet in different shoes to know how and what it’s owners supposed to feel or do!?. I don’t think so, you have to run through all the details of other person life to answer questions, through heavens, and hells.

Sometimes, I really wish using existing technology to innovate and bring this type of advanced features of system or model where anyone can augment details of other life around them on earth and give touch of reality to the story to actually feel how it looks like being in position of someone else and see how a person can react to same major breakpoints given the current simulated conditions and their own life data streams, is it going to be same as of original path or taking a new one!, a good or bad new one!? A better or worse?. A system similar to a dream, but to live the moments with tangible conclusions rather than unleashing the imagination of connection, to be the women who lost 5 sons, Husband and brothers, to be the man who lost all of his family in front of him, to see friends disappeared, a kid alone in streets that no one cares about eating from garbage, girl seeking for money and food, families fleeing war zones to be refugees facing racism and hatred movements that don’t want them around or even breathing a life nearby ...etc. Then and only then u can physically walk through the timeline and live the experience of how u would react if you were someone else and to feel them so deep by living their story. I believe this will change everything in our life and the whole world, to treat people the same way that u want to be treated. Might be a black mirror episode one day!.

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