Talking less often helps. Being dignified makes you happier.
Not being friends with everyone puts you one step ahead. You will be less upset by being selective in human relations.
not to be smug, look, this is very important to be solution oriented and resourceful
The opposite of these characteristics is not attracted to women either, but men, if I am not going to incur the wrath of feminists, are somewhat more authoritarian figures in social life. That's why they don't feel like jelly at all.