How to discover an infidelity

in human •  8 years ago 

Discovering an infidelity is something that every person who doubts and distrusts his partner would like to know and just for these people I am here to teach them everything they need to know about how to discover an infidelity and to know in what steps your partner walks, if in bad Or in good ones.

Let's get to the point!

To discover an infidelity you do not have to go to the nasa simply by evaluating the day to day behavior of your partner towards you is sufficient.

If you notice any indifference in your partner, the first thing you should do is to carefully observe their steps and follow them, never neglect them, be as attentive as possible to their movements, investigate carefully with whom they meet day by day and do during All day apart from spending it with you.

There are times that in a relationship to the passage of time is lost that love, that love that both shared together and the vast majority of times is due to a third person in their relationship, things that need to be avoided in time and then not regret.

If you feel that the love that your partner feels towards you is weakening or that it is no longer the same, worry that something is wrong, talk to your partner and ask what is happening, because possibly your partner cares for another person, Are painful things that nobody wants to discover, but imagine it is worse that they are deceiving behind you, that you do not know and that everything is marching to perfection, look at that is something unpleasant, something terrible, do not want to live that and More when there are comments, rumors, the neighbors say, your friends tell you and you are the only blindfolded person who does not believe anything, it is something that really frustrates many times when you realize the Reality, that's why you have to act with time before reaching these extremities.

Sometimes discussions are often in relationships and often for nothing, for any nonsense, and you will wonder what is wrong with your partner, and most likely you are looking for reasons to separate from you and you do not Know, be very aware of that, you must prevent such things from happening in your relationship and if you happen to worry and get to the bottom, look for conclusion.

The essential in a relationship of couples as I mentioned in previous post is the trust and communication that may be in you, if in your relationship there is no trust and communication can give that relationship for lost there is nothing to look for, always try to Keep those values ​​in your relationship so that you can go better and more over time.

There are many people who do not know how to use COMMUNICATION with their partner, something as simple as communication can put your relationship at risk, here will show you how to use communication with your partner to avoid certain problems:

Every time you have problems, whatever it is, tell your partner, if your partner does not do it, you must have communication between them.
If you notice your half-weird partner, ask her and ask her what is wrong with her, do not keep quiet, talk, give words to your partner, find out everything that happens with your partner that you most of all have every right to know everything , To know everything that happens with your partner.
If you notice your concerned partner or any problem come up and you worry too and ask what happens to you, let your partner see that you care about their problems.
If you are told anything about your partner out there, try to find out for yourself, ask your partner questions, but your partner does not know what the reason for your questions is, do it carefully.
This is how communication is used in a relationship, take that example of help and guide, so you will have more fluency and confidence when talking to your partner about anything and you will have more chances to discover an infidelity in your partner.
On the other hand we can say that to discover an infidelity it is important and necessary to know how to act before the situation without your partner realizing that you suspect that you are unfaithful, if you do not know how to act, let me tell you that the first thing you have to do Is to control your emotional state, if you do not control your partner will realize everything and may when you realize you wash your head to you with lies and you end up believing everything and your partner being unfaithful behind your back as you please for no Having that emotional control, you know very well that if your partner walks in bad footsteps he is not going to tell you, then you should be as careful as possible to act in these situations in order to reach your goal or mission that is to discover An infidelity.

After you achieve that emotional control you can continue the process, but carefully, then ask your partner the following:

Love happens something that I feel so cold with me? Immediately upon asking the question you observe the attitude of your partner to your question and then you deduct.
Is there something you dislike about me? I need you to tell me if there is something you dislike for me to try to improve? And continue to observe his attitude carefully.
Honey, can we go out together today? Let's go out together to vote a little stress and talk for a while do you think? So we remember those moments when we began our relationship in those times. There you smile, but still watching his attitude, so that you can notice his indifference in his eyes, if you notice that puts a lot of pretext, start to worry that something is wrong.
Do you give me a kiss? A kiss as cool as what you can give me? There you come back and smile, if you do not see the intention of your partner to give that kiss, give it yourself and last at least 5 minutes kissing your partner and observe well their reaction and behavior.
With these four questions you will begin to have an idea of ​​what is really happening to your partner, then you continue to follow him up, but remember to always do so carefully, that your partner will never notice behind you.

In order to discover an infidelity you must have a lot of patience and perseverance, I say this because in many cases there are people who despair and say everything to their partner and even end the relationship without even having a test, alone For suspicion and thus should not be things, because it may be that your suspicions are false and you accusing your partner of something you have not done, then the hard thing is that after you end the relationship when you realize Of reality then you start to suffer and regret and you will want to return with your partner, but it may be too late or maybe your partner will not want to accept you for what you did, that is why I tell you that they must have Patience, perseverance and great care when trying to discover an infidelity and above all to know how to control their emotional state by situations like these that can be given, avoid having to lament something that could have avoided or before.

If at any time you discover an infidelity in your partner I only advise you to try to stay calm, do not lose your head, do not let you take your mind in that moment to discover it, because maybe you can fail.

Tip: infidelity is not good, avoid being unfaithful and avoid being unfaithful too, say no to infidelity, infidelity destroys homes and families happy, think very well before being unfaithful, think of the consequences that can bring them To the moment of being unfaithful, the more faithful you are the more points you add to your happiness, to that of your partner and to that of your family over time, be faithful to gain happiness in future and future days.27381815376_70ec1bf826.jpg

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