APOLOGY

APOLOGY

Apology is a word with a great healing balm. It is a subject to be discussed due to different problem that has been emanating in the society. Conflict and misunderstanding rules the day in some area because nobody wants to apologize. Apology is a platform for reconciliation and Gods word is a base for good living, . Who is that man that will live in peace and happiness? Who is that man that will keep good union? The man that will say sorry for his mistakes. Apology, works wonderfully. It will bring down anger in anybody and restore peace. A lot of relationship is broken and became irreconcilable because the offender cannot say (I’m sorry).Do you know that if you realize your mistake and refuse to say sorry it is an evidence of rudeness, unfaithful fellow, and incorrigible act. The place of APOLOGY cannot be ruled out in any offensive case. If you want reconciliation, you must say sorry. Don’t be deceived, anyone who does not apologize for his or her wrongs cannot make a lovely friend. I do not know the position you are now, neither do I know the man or woman you owe Apology. I want to use this medium to let you know that APOLOGY is one great thing that can restore that broken relationship if you find yourself guilty. Most people have been deprived promotion, blessing, wedlock and other things just because they cannot say sorry for their simple mistake.

             YOUR MANNER OF APOLOGY        

It is commonly said that action speaks louder than word. A true apology will be noticed from your action or the way you apologized. Don’t be rude in your apology to a wounded heart it will cause more pain and agony. Wisdom is needed when you want to apologize to anybody you have offended; you must understand that the atmosphere is rough and filled with hatred. In other word you must be very careful because you action and utterance may be misinterpreted just because of the matter on ground. Your manner of apology has to be composed properly with all seriousness. If you can involve elders to accompany you or friends to apologize do it just to restore peace. In most cases, doing such reflect true apology and remorse. A true apology is a base for true reconciliation. Moreover, I will like to use this medium to let you know that Apology has no limit. Nobody is too old or young to apologize this is one fact everybody has to understand. For those men or women that abandoned their children for many years you are not too big to apologize. The elder should say sorry to the younger if he or she is guilty; likewise the younger should apologize to the elder when guilty. Apology matters a lot, it is unfortunate that most cases that is not suppose to be reported to the police has been forwarded to court by the police men just because the two parties cannot reach to reconciliation and apologize. Some are in pain and sorrow because of common “Apology “.There are times your money cannot buy apology you must say it with passion and remorse if you will regain your good relationship. I want you to know that apology is a good weapon to continuing a good relationship.

DON’T BE SHY

Shyness is one main obstacle to apology. About 85% of people feel very shy to apologize and some feel insulted thinking absurdity. Apology will not reduce your integrity or honor; it will add to your honor and make you a very responsible person before everyone. Say no to violence and keep peace with everybody. A true friend does not oppress neither will he raise his ego against apology. Don’t be shy, amend every mistake and restore your confidence. Mistakes are common to man and nobody is above it .lay down good examples live by it so that the upcoming youth will embrace it. Don’t let the matter go too far before you make up your mind to apologize, you are too precious to be living in bondage of shyness and malice. Put the devil to shame declare a good behavior; don’t be moved by what people around you will say. Remember if you delay your apology it may not be valued when you decide to express it.

APOLOGY HEALS THE WOUND.

Apology has a healing balm if you express it from the button of your mind, it avert wraths and conflict. Mischievous behavior and rudeness knocks off good relationship. If you want to belong to the supernatural realm, learn to apologize. Nobody knows what tomorrow holds in stock but you can make it a better tomorrow when you learn to say (sorry). Apology clears off future malice and misunderstanding, each time you think of that man or women apology your mind is consoled you feel secured and loved. It is only the unwise that will reject apology. Instant apology clears hurt from mind it also shows true remorse and opens door for forgiveness. If you apologize reluctantly, you are opening doors for more problems. Did you ever imagine how you felt when that man or woman who stepped on your toes said (sorry) for his or her mistake? If you apologize the individual or group of people involved does not think of revenge or retaliation. A true apology can heal the wounds and reestablish a good relationship. Be careful in your dealing with people. Good instruction abides in the heart of the wise while the foolish one takes it for granted.