INTRODUCTION:
Some people regard sex as a selfish act, a conquest of personal fulfillment even if it’s only in their subconscious. For the most part, our society celebrates the process of “hook up, shack up, and break up”. Porn is also a massive industry, generating $10 to $14 billion annually in revenues yet we still wonder, who are those watching them? Everyone seems to be obsessed with the common sayings "No Strings Attached" and "Friends with Benefits" and inappropriate sex is increasing everywhere. Sometimes all we have to do is take a moment to observe the way sex is communicated in our culture because most times our culture gives the wrong orientation to the young ones. It also explains why sex trafficking is a $32 billion global industry “45,000 to 50,000 young girls are trafficked in the United States every year” and why one in 12 youths experience sexual victimization, including sexual assault and attempted or completed rape. The problem, however, is not sex, it’s us. In order to understand this, we must first understand that the underlying cause of all the problems in this world is sin.
In between the legs of a woman is a write up I came across while trying to study about the make up of a woman. It dawned on me that the most dangerous part of a woman’s body is in between her legs, well, it also appears that it is the most attractive part when exposed to an opposite sex and of course some times the same sex ( not like I support homo-sexualism). This topic will be treated with 3 approaches, the biological, religion approach and spiritual approach.
THE BIOLOGICAL APPROACH:
The vagina is not the only part in between the legs but is known to be the most famous organ in that “department”. The other ones including the vagina are explained below;
MONS PUBIS: it is a soft mound of fatty tissue that covers the pelvic bone at the front of the vulva that is covered in pubic hair. It is the V shape that most people are familiar with between a woman’s legs. The size of the Mons pubis varies from each woman depending on the fat content of her body.
LABIA MAJORA: popularly called the major lips are the two thick folds of skin that are formed from the mons pubis splitting in two. These lips are also covered in hair ( after puberty sets in) and protect the more delicate parts within the vulva. The labia majora start at the tip of the mons pubis (the pudendal cleft) and end at the perineum (the flat part between the vagina and the anus known as the gooch.)
LABIA MINORA: the labia minora (or minor lips) are the two soft folds of skin that sits within the labia majora. They provide another layer of protection for the mucus membrane and inside skin of the vulva. These lips can sometimes extend past the labia majora and vary in color and size for every woman.
CLITORIS: The clitoris sits at the top of the vulva and is covered by a flap of skin called the clitoral hood that protects the clitoris. The visible portion of the clitoris is called the clitoral glands. The clitoris is usually the size of pea and consists of many nerve endings which make it one of the most sensitive parts of the body. The physical make up of the clitoris is similar to that of the head of the male penis. The labia minora also connects to the clitoris. The function of the clitoris is simply to bring pleasure. Scientists have found no other known function of the clitoris beyond.
URETHRAL OPENING: it sits right below the clitoris and right above the vagina. This opening leads to the bladder and is where urine is excreted during urination.
VAGINA: right below the urethral opening and above the perineum (gooch) is the opening to the vagina. The vagina is a collapsed muscle and the muscle and the opening to its is usually closed until something is inserted inside. The vagina is a fibro muscular tubular tract that leads to the uterus where fetuses grow into babies during pregnancy. The vagina is a self cleaning organ that maintains its own ecosystem of healthy bacteria.
Source: Wikipedia.org/wiki/vulva
Now that the organs have been analyzed showing their different works, I believe we now understand that the vagina is not the only organ in between a woman’s leg but however, my point of focus is on the GATEWAY in between the legs of a woman (THE VAGINA) which is arguably the most powerful part of the woman body.
THE RELIGION APPROACH:
Both the bible and Quran have things to say when it comes to sex. Let me remind you that there is no way we can talk about the vagina without sex. Sex is ordained by God right from the Old Testament in the bible but it has conditions attached to it. These conditions are conditions that virtually every youth have violated. You must understand that in the bible any kind of sex before proper marriage is considered as sexual immorality by God and apart from the fact that it is dangerous for both sexes; it attracts serious punishment from God.
In the Bible, (Romans 1:21-25) Paul says of the human condition;
“For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things. Therefore God gave them up in the lusts of their hearts to impurity, to the dishonoring of their bodies among themselves, because they exchanged the truth about God for a lie and worshiped and served the creature rather than the Creator, who is blessed forever!" Amen
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To be very clear about my stand, I am not judging anyone because the bible said in " (Romans 2:1) "Therefore you have no excuse, O man, every one of you who judges. For in passing judgment on another you condemn yourself, because you, the judge, practice the very same things”
The Bible has a lot to say about sex including that it's good and that it glorifies God when we enjoy sex in the context for which He created it and satisfying the conditions with which he commanded it. But before that, remember; Psalm 1:1-6 “Blessed is the man that worketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners or sitteth in the seat of the scornful but his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in His law doth he meditate day and night. And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper. The ungodly are not so but are like the chaff which the wind driveth away. Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. For the Lord knoweth the way of the righteous but the way of the ungodly shall perish.”
The points below are points we must always remember so we will remain guided by the word of God and not misbehave in whatsoever manner;
Hebrews 13: 4- Marriage is honorable in all and the bed undefiled but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Leviticus 18:22: You shall not lie with a male as with a woman; it is an abomination.
1 Corinthians 7:1-2: Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
God created us male and female in His image and likeness with dignity, equality, value, and worth: Men and women are different and complement one another (Genesis1:27-28).
Sex is to be done in such a way that there is no shame (Genesis 2:25; Proverbs 5:18-23): Many people experience shame in regard to sex. Sometimes the shame is a gift from God. So many of us have experienced this in one way or the other, in fact it has led to other bigger sins. 70% of youths in this part of the world are guilty of this.
Your standard of beauty is your spouse: God made one man and one woman. He did not ask them if they wanted someone tall or short, light or heavy, pale or dark skinned, with long or short hair. In short, He did not permit them to develop a standard of beauty. Instead, He gave them each a spouse as a standard of beauty (Genesis 2:23, Proverbs 6:20-35).
Marriage is for one man and one woman by God’s design: This is the consistent teaching of the Bible from the table of contents to the appendix and the teaching of Jesus Christ Himself (Genesis 2:24-25, Matthew 19:4).
God created sex: God made our bodies “very good” with “male and female” parts and pleasures. The reason that sex is fun, pleasurable, and wonderful is because it is a reflection of the loving goodness of God. The ALMIGHTY that created us with the ability to feel, male and female genitals did for a reason. (Genesis 2:24-25).
Sex outside of marriage is a sin: Sinful sex includes homosexuality, erotica, bestiality, bisexuality, fornication, friends with benefits, adultery, swinging, prostitution, incest, rape, polygamy, polyandry, sinful lust, pornography, and so on.
Have you ever truly given yourself to someone selflessly to love them, explore them? Have you spent your life pursuing pleasure instead of seeking to give pleasure to a lifelong spouse? And, are you truly happy and fulfilled with your sex life? God gives us very clear guidance in His Word on how we can best experience the gift of intimacy and love that He gave to us through sex. Sex was meant as a wonderful experience between husband and wife to provide physical, emotional and spiritual bonding. But remember what Ephesians 5:3 says “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people”.
The bible’s position about sexual immorality is clear enough. God is also aware that there might be temptations from every corner so He already told us what to do and what not to do;
• Flee completely from immorality: 1 Corinthians 6: 18 “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a person commits are outside the body, but whoever sins sexually, sins against their own body.”
• Marriage – We must understand that to avoid sexual Immorality, we must consider the option of marriage. Gen 2:24-“ That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” And when it comes to marriage please understand that the bible does not in any way support homosexuals. 1 Corinthians 6:9 “or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral nor idolaters nor adulterers nor men who have sex with men”. 1 Corinthians 7:2 : But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband.
• Do not look at a woman lustfully: Matthew 5:28 “But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5) says “It is God’s will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality; that each of you should learn to control your own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in passionate lust like the pagans, who do not know God;”
• Be contented and satisfied with your woman: Proverbs 5:15-19- “ Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love” Maybe we don’t even understand what love is, the bible has made it clear in the book of 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 which says that “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, and always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.”
But never the less do not forget what the bible says in the book of 1 Corinthians 6:13-20: “Food for the stomach and the stomach for food, and God will destroy them both.” The body, however, is not meant for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. “
Even for the widows too, the bible says in “1 Corinthians 7:8-9 : “To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.” We need to understand that the problem isn't our partners. It's us. We've perverted sex and misused it. God's way is the best way, and I encourage you to humbly pray and think about what he has to say about us and sex in his word "the Bible”
NB: Any kind of sex that doesn’t obey God’s instructions on sex is called sexual immorality.
Read the bible verses below to understand /know more about what God said about sex and sex immoralities:
1 Corinthians 7:3-5 ,Hebrews 13:4 , 1 Corinthians 7:2 ,1 Corinthians 6:18 ,Proverbs 5:18-19 ,1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 ,Matthew 5:28 ,1 Corinthians 6:18-20, 1 Corinthians 7:5 Proverbs 6:32 .Romans 13:13-14 ,Leviticus 20:13 , Romans 1:26-27 ,1 Thessalonians 4:4 , 1 Peter 2:11, 1 Corinthians 6:9-11 , Romans 1:27 , Matthew 5:27-30 ,Exodus 22:19 , 1 Corinthians 10:8 , 1 Corinthians 7:9 , Romans 13:9 , Romans 1:26 , Mark 10:6-9 , Matthew 15:19-20 ,1Thessalonians 4:3-4 ,Proverbs 5:15-19 , 1 Corinthians 6:19 , Acts 15:29 ,Leviticus 18:23.
Always remember this (Proverbs 1:1-7) -The proverbs of Solomon, son of David, king of Israel: To know wisdom and instruction, to understand words of insight, to receive instruction in wise dealing, in righteousness, justice, and equity; to give prudence to the simple, knowledge and discretion to the youth— Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance.”
Quran
The Quran also said similar thing about sex and marriage. The Holy book also highlighted marriage as the only option to go by if you feel you cannot do without sex.
"Marry the spouseless among you., if they are poor, God will enrich them of His bounty." (24:32)
The Prophet said, "When one of you sees a beautiful woman, he should go to his wife. Because what is with her [i.e., wife] is same as what is with the other one." (Wasa'il, vol. 14, p. 72-73) The same hadith is also recorded with a slight difference: The Prophet said, "O Men! Verily the act of seeing [a beautiful woman] is from Satan, therefore whoever finds this inclination in him should go to his wife. This is indirectly fighting against adultery, fornication and sexual immorality.
The first hadith is as follows:
The Prophet said, "When the woman comes towards you, it is Satan who is approaching you. When one of you sees a woman and he feels attracted to her, he should hurry to his wife. With her, it would be the same as with the other one."
After quoting this hadith, Mernissi adds the comments of Imam Muslim that "She resembles Satan in his irresistible power over the individual." i.e. the power she commands (in between her legs) with her breasts and “ass” as a form of manipulation/distraction to get men down with her.
"... Then marry such women as seem good to you two, three or four. But if you fear that you will not do justice between your wives, then marry only one..." (4:3)
Sex has been openly recommended in the Qur'an only when wives or husbands are involved;
"When they [i.e., the wives] have cleansed themselves [after menstruation], you go into them as Allah has commanded." (2:222)
So, after all the bible verses and the various citations in the Quran, we should understand that sex was ordained by God but with conditions. In between the legs of a woman is where we find the vagina (opening through which man’s penis enters during sex). Sex is good, if done the right way. The religious approach has answered our questions on handling the urge and the best time to have it.
Traditionalists: These ones are very much aware of the potency of the power in between the legs of a woman so they warn their people about it. You might have noticed that most of the charms they do for people involves not having sex with a woman because the charm might lose its potency.
SPIRITUAL APPROACH
Naturally men are not contented with what they have, they are always tempted to do otherwise with the women outside but most of them do not know that it can ruin them permanently. Even the bible says in the book of Proverbs 5:20: “And why wilt thou, my son, be ravished with a strange woman, and embrace the bosom of a stranger?”
In between the legs of a woman lies a portal / gateway that leads most times to destruction and sometimes otherwise. It is of no news that one of the most powerful instruments in the hand of the devil is the woman. It takes only the grace of God not to fall into their hands as it is clear that we cannot do without them. IN BETWEEN THEIR LEGS lies poison and antidote, they are very unique and easily possessed beings. If you can’t control your sexual impulses as a man, you definitely cannot live long. That same power is responsible for the fall of so many men of God, in fact show me a man of God that is really “hot” this moment for God and is still having sex. You will notice that even men of God that are married do not really want sex because of their Hunger for power. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying that it is a must for them, all I am just saying is that move closer to those men of God and ask them why.
In between the legs of a woman is a “valley” of perished destinies and repaired ones, a place where stars walk in and come back as nothing and vice versa, a place of unconscious strong covenants, a place that should scare everyone but is rather attractive , a place where great men have fallen with no hope of rising ever again. As attractive the body of a woman is, none of the physical features on her body weilds such power , the kind of power deposited in between the legs of a woman is enough to prosper a man and twice enough to destroy him-“Davidann”.
Take a look at the picture below, it shows men of valor, men of substance, men of class, men of timber and caliber been subjected to the power in between the legs. They have now become slave of even their own destinies because of sex. One of the people I look up to will always tell me that “if you are getting girls like never before, be careful, the devil already has a plan to take away good things from you”. She further added that there’s nothing like you are lucky with the girls, you are only trying to be unfortunate”.
If you are above 18 and you feel like you just want to explore, you better take things easy because the devil don’t pity nobody, no matter your position or how strong you are , to overcome the temptation of sex takes the grace of God. This is the reason why many pastors sleep with other people’s wife, bosses rape or have sexual relationships with their house maids and all that.
Some ladies are already captives in the spiritual realm and they are being sent out to recruit more captives with the evil powers given unto them. Yet some men do not see beyond the physical and their selfish desire, they fall into their traps and it becomes very difficult to get out of it.
Davidann said in one of his quotes that “sex is beyond the physical, it is a spiritual transaction”. Just so you know, each time you have sex with a woman, we make certain covenants especially when it involves a virgin (Blood Covenant- the strongest covenant) and certain deposits. So many times we have deliberately walked into traps set for us by the enemies by laying with other women asides your wife or different women just for fun.
Note: The fact that she is your wife or girl friend does not mean that she cannot be possessed or be in captive; in fact it makes it easier for the enemy to reach you. We just have to be careful as the fun we seem to have is the genesis of the battles we are fighting today, connect to God and control your selfish desires. If you cannot do without sex, get a wife so the Quran and bible says.
Now, I am not saying women are dangerous or not but you will agree with me that they are easily possessed and manipulated and this has contributed to their complex and dangerous nature. Take for example this illustration: There is a man that wants to reverse some money that left his account. He made transactions with 10 different banks with the least amount being #1,000,000 (one million naira), now he got to know that he made the wrong transactions and he wants everything reversed. The question is “can it be reversed?” even if it is eventually reversed, can he get all back? Do not forget that he didn’t give the banks money but some of his business associates using the different banks.
Answer the questions in your mind and let’s see. This is exactly what happens when you make deposits of YOU everywhere. We should not forget that it has been said earlier that “sex is not just a physical activity, it is a spiritual transaction” -Davidann. So when we make these transactions, it is not something we can just get back in full like that except by the intervention of the grace and mercy of God (2 Corinthians 9:8). In between the legs of a woman can be the way to your doom or otherwise in some cases. Woman are so blessed and are cursed too (the curse can be as a result of anything but every one of them was blessed). The only way sex is blessed is when both parties are legally married to each other, do not forget there are manipulations and anything can go wrong at anytime.
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80% of men out there including myself are guilty of this; we pray God will open our eyes and mind to see and understand the risks we are taking all the time.
Davidann does not hate women; he is a free writer who understands the beauty of humanity. I understand that women are one of the precious gifts God gave humanity. Maximum respect to all the women out there trying to make a better tomorrow for themselves.
As it is in the women so it is in the men. They can deposit evil and good accordingly.
Notice: I want to say a very big thank you to everyone who’s been supporting me from the very start, I appreciate y’all for the support, God bless you all.
-DAVIDANN