20 realizations in my 20’s.

Dark times reveal your true friends. We have to accept the fact that some people are just acquaintances.
Love without regrets. Love without expecting something in return.
Be kind to everyone. Everyone is fighting a battle you do not know about.
Do not expect people to do the same for you. They do not have a heart like you.
One sided love is toxic. It is not worth losing your self-worth.
Do good and good things will happen to your life. What goes around comes around.
No matter how tough life gets, never stop smiling. You do not own all the problems of the world.
Be careful of your words. Once they’re said, you cannot take them back. It stabs mightier than a sword.
You would rather be alone than be in a bad company.
You would rather have small amount of friends than be with a lot of fake friends.
Chase your dreams not people.
Do not beg for people to be in your life. Forced love is never worth it.
No matter what happens in life, your family is your best confidant. They will never leave you in your dilemmas.
Always give your best shot. Life is too short. Say what you want to say.
You would rather be single than be in a shitty relationship. You would rather be alone than keep on questioning your worth.
Travel alone for once in your life. You’ll discover more about yourself. It is liberating and self-fulfilling.
Learn about new things in life. Seek new adventures.
Partying does not excite you anymore . You would rather sleep than get wasted.
Love yourself always. Make yourself a priority because no one will do that aside from you.
Accept who you are. You will never be truly happy if you cannot accept your flaws and imperfections. Self-love should be too strong.

words by: neil jed castro

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