GETTING THROUGH LIFE SUCCESSFULLY (IT DOES NOT MATTER WHO YOU ARE)

in inspiration •  7 years ago 

Life is simple but complicated depending on the kind of decision you take in life. I will talk about a technique for getting cooperation that will help you to get through life successfully. No matter what you are doing, you will come to the point very soon when you will want to apply this philosophy. Selling your service, your merchandise, your products, your ideas, or whatever it is you want to market, you will need the cooperation of the other people in order to do it. Salesmanship is an important thing. We all have to be salesman and we are all salesmen at one time or another.

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Here is a story of a woman who came to see the author. She started to tell him all her difficulties. She was blind and he couldn't help feeling sorry for her, or he wouldn't have permitted her to take up his time with her tales of woe. She started giving him a summary of her life for the last twenty years. She had formerly worked for the movies and had invested considerable money in a movie concern which went broke. Her husband started drinking, her mother passed away, and she had trouble with other relatives. Apparently there was not one constructive or good thing that had happened to this woman in twenty years. Then she asked, "Mr. Frank, why do you thing my eyes went bad on me?"

Mr. Frank then said, "Mrs. I hope you will understand that I do not wish to be harsh with you, but I must somehow get you to face the facts. Frankly, I think with your negative attitude it's a wonder you are able to do anything at a bit surprised that your husband drinks. It's a wonder he doesn't leave home."

She then asked, "What can I do to stop him?"

Mr. Frank replied, "You can't do anything for him now, but you can do something to help yourself. you've been thinking about your losses to the exclusion of everything else. The more you concentrate on on them, the more your attract other losses. Stop thinking about them, make up your mind you are going to benefit by experience, and then adopt as your specific objective in life the restoration of your sight. keep your mind filled with the fact that you are going to see again. Dwell upon the idea that your eyes will be healed so that you will see once more. The first thing you know, your changed attitude will cause your husband to regain his interest in you and he will probably stop his drinking. Your relatives will stop abusing you. This is all I can tell you at this time. When you manage to get yourself into a positive frame of mind, come to see me again, and perhaps I can help you further. Before I can really do anything for you, you must do something for yourself."

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This illustration will only be or sound like just a story but there is more to it than a story. It should be telling you something. I don't suppose you have a tale of woe like the one just mentioned. Let us hope not. But the first thing for you to do is start a Master Mind alliance with that other personality, that positive other self who recognizes no such thing as defeat, and start cultivating his friendship. Get on good terms with others. Then, When you have done a good job of working on yourself, mean more to you. You will then attract people who will willingly cooperate with you.

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To make it simple, most people on Steemit, not just for the money but to make out the good ones of their choice maybe a good content writer and so on. So being a newbies, all you have to do is to get up learn more improve upon your way of writing and one day you will get there.

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