the man is the leader

Every man will have his time become pemimp'm. Yaa, being the leader of the family, becomes the leader for his wife and children someday. But there is 1 thing
sometimes I forget people. That is, studying religion.
Someone before becoming a husband should be able to equip and equip himself with the science of Islami religion. Where later after marriage is used to guide and direct their wives and children to the truth, to keep them away from deviations which also means to distance themselves and their families from the fires of hell.
Should also a husband has planned religious education for his wife. At least he already has a support for that. And before he became a father he should have prepared his wife to become his children's educator someday. Because mother is a madrasah (school) for her children.
Every man will have his time become pemimp'm. Yaa, being the leader of the family, becomes the leader for his wife and children someday. But there are things
sometimes I forget people. That is, studying religion.
Someone before becoming a husband should be able to equip and equip himself with the science of Islami religion. Where later after marriage is used to guide and direct their wives and children to the truth, to keep them away from deviations which also means to distance themselves and their families from the fires of hell.
Should also a husband has planned religious education for his wife. At least he already has a support for that. And before he became a father he should have prepared his wife to become his children's educator someday. Because mother is a madrasah (school) for her children.

It should also be noted that getting religious teaching is one of the rights of the wife that should be fulfilled by the husband. But it is often considered trivial by the husband of today. As a husband should be aware that the shallowness of the religious knowledge of his wife is fatal to his family life someday.

Therefore a husband should make his wife as "clever muslimah" for the good of household life, especially as stock in educating the children later.