YOUR presence is an inspiration!!

They say that you need someone to support you when things go tough on you or you're going low in your life. I say that you need that someone even if you just need to start your day with a smile or end your day with a dream. This someone does not has to be a perfectionist or a super talented person or a millionaire. This person just needs to be besides you always to encourage you, to empower you, to love you, to correct you, to make you laugh, to hear you and at times to be YOU!

Yes, my husband and his presence inspires me each day. My husband has been the simplest, the craziest, the passionate, the supportive, the sexiest, the weirdest and an amazing partner. There could have been times when I talk the entire day and he might not pay attention to couple of things, this does not bother me at all.
What makes me comfortable is when I stop talking - it troubles him.
When I return home after work and he does not find a smile on my face - it troubles him.
When I do not act crazy and be quiet - it troubles him.
When I get upset and cry - it troubles him.

I still struggle to understand that how did I meet such an awesome partner. The simplest things in a relationship makes it perfect and valuable. When we walk on the road, he always moves me to the side of the road covering me against the traffic. He holds my hand whenever we cross the road, though he knows that I've stayed alone in one of the busiest cities of India working independently. Whenever I cook something new for him in my kitchen, he ensures to check on me in intervals to boost up my efforts.

Sometimes, when I am sleeping, he observes me. I know I haven't seen this but I can definitely feel it. When I scream out of fear in my dreams, he immediately holds me and wrap around me tightly. At a weekend, if I make the morning tea; he makes the evening tea. There could be days, weeks or months when we do not call each other after being at work. But, there have also been days when we just take off and sit next to each other talking, hearing, giggling, laughing, crying, eating, sleeping, reading or just doing nothing.

I wonder the way he learnt to handle the temperature of AC in our bedroom, not too high not too low. This is something that he figured out to make me comfortable. Each time when I go to him with my problems, he hears me patiently. The way he appreciates my choices and accepts my decisions is something that makes me admire him more and more. There is no load on either of us to like/dislike each others interests, yet we both share a quality time together. I am blessed!

I learn each day, I am experienced and I pass through circumstances because he made me believe that emotions are nothing to be afraid of. He accepted me as I am with my weaknesses and strengths, empowering me to welcome the new things in life. I thank him the way he helps me to understand a situation and yet allow me to take my decisions independently. I know deep inside, he strongly desires everything best and royal for me. I appreciate him and I am always with him to manage the highs and lows of our life.

Smile in the mirror. Do that every day and you'll start to see a big difference in your life. I smile in you, I live in you and I will forever be in you!