I know you love her, if you did not, you would not be with her. But I know that you are human and you have variable emotions, you are likely to love her in the wrong ways.
A happy and healthy relationship can become destructive if you do not treat it as it deserves to be treated.
However, I hope you try to love her properly. I hope you are aware of your love for her. I hope you know that that consciousness is what will keep your relationship strong.
I want you to remember what it looked like the first time you saw it. She was everything you had wanted. But in its beauty, its nature, its sense of humor or its independence, there is something in it that you have not found in anyone else.
What surprised you most was his integrity.
If you love her, keep her that way: Keep her beauty, her bravery; keep it complete.
Although she is the architect of her own destiny, I want you to understand that you play a very important role in her life. How you treat determines how you see yourself, you can make it shine or make it lose. She is a statue in your hands and only expects to be treated with care.
If you love her, do not destroy her.
She has been destroyed before, another destruction is not what she is looking for. If she is with you, you must know that she has overcome her fears and insecurities to be with you; He has overcome his past and has decided to give love another chance, he has given his heart to you.
Do not let it fall.
You destroy it the moment you think you know it. It is not a book that you will end sooner or later. She is something yet to be discovered, so she lives every day as if it were the first time you see her.
It stimulates your thoughts, your emotions, your being. Sail in your soul as if you did in the immense ocean.
You will destroy her if she ever feels that you need her more than you love her. You will destroy every inch of your being if you only love it when loneliness floods you. Because she seeks your love at all times, not only when your insecurities and fears attack you.
I know that your own sufferings may have destroyed you, but do not love her just to carry all your emotional charge. Do not love her if you only want her to fix you, you should know that she will do it without you noticing.
Your love and existence will heal every part of you. But if you are with her just to fill the emptiness of your own soul she will realize it, and you will destroy her.
And remember, she does not want to be repaired either. Maybe it opened with you and told you about the pain of his past; Maybe you know the exact number of pieces in which it was ever broken, but she did not tell you to put it together again, she just did it so you know she was able to handle it and how that made her who she is today.
She wants you to know that the way you treat her, with love, understanding and patience, is what matters.
Do not treat it as if it were broken, it is complete with all its pieces, even when it is full of scars and marks, hug it with it, do not add it anymore. Make him see why he went through destructive relationships, make him see that the "worst" has already happened and in that way he will appreciate the "best" you are.
She wants to be the same in front of you that in front of her mirror, crazy, wild and free. If you are not ready to accept who you are, you will destroy it.
If you love her, make her stronger, she will do the same with you. Whatever effort you make, she will do it twice.
If you show her the moon, she will show you the entire galaxy.
If you take her to a lake, she will introduce you to the ocean.
If you treat her well, she will love you even more.
If you love her well, she will never forget you.
Share this beautiful thought with your loved ones.