The good handling of interpersonal relationships is a prominent manifestation of a person’s emotional intelligence.
In interpersonal relationships, a person's communication level determines whether the person is worthy of communication. People's level is often hidden in every detail.
The writer Di An once said: "In the process of growing up, this thing is like a blood vessel. It can be intertwined in the deepest part of human flesh and blood, and is inseparable."
The more a person shows up in public, the more he can see his behavior and education. Because everything we do represents our overall image.
Those who think of others in everything and give others warmth are worthy of our association.
There is a person in China called Lei Feng. He is a person who thinks of others first in everything. He has been selflessly helping everyone he meets throughout his life. If it is a short one or two, maybe everyone can perform. But doing this for decades is precious, and we can see that his inner quality is very admirable.
Suppose you meet this kind of person, would you like to be friends with him? I believe that no matter it is, anyone will like to be friends with such a person. This is the power of quality.
People themselves are actually like commodities, and the qualities of people are the attributes of this commodity. If you can make your attributes, your qualities, and your personality very perfect, then you will be a particularly popular product. In the eyes of others, you are a person who shines like gold, so others will definitely make friends with you. Whether it is a good thing or a profitable thing, they will think of you first, because you are worthy of help .
And some people, they will do their best to dig out their own interests in everything, and never think of letting others take a little more profit, this kind of people do not realize the benefits of running their own personality. Therefore, if others have a very good opportunity to make money, or other good things, it is hard to think that they are willing to share this matter with them.
Of course, in interpersonal relations, it is not only to benefit others, but there are many other detailed skills besides this point, but I believe this must be the most precious one. If you can do it, no one will hate you.