So glad to hear from you. I know for those dealing with someone with bipolar it can be very frustrating and confusing, especially when it comes to the dynamic between parent and child. I imagine you have lost patience with him, there is only so much you can deal with sometimes. My husband has understandably lost his with me many many times as well. It is commendable that you are open to listening to the other perspective. That is so important for your girlfriend and especially the children. Whether you realize ti or not, that will be a tremendous help for them too.
Thank you so much for the genuine welcome! Followed back!