Steemit VS. Virily

I've been getting more and more involved in Steemit.
I've joined various groups through an app called Discord if I am correct. I am still trying to figure out how all this works.
The groups operate like chat groups but also let me share my Steemit posts.
There are also ways to share your posts on Twitter. Steemit bloggers use hashtags like #SteemItBloggersand #ShapeInspireConquer.
I decided I'd spend a little time each week at both Steemit and Virily and at the end of 6 months or a year see which site has paid me the most money.
Recently, I was invited to ANOTHER cryptocurrency group. A blogging influencer, Matt Loomis, is there, so I'm thinking it must be pretty reputable.
However, I need to focus on my blog and getting my Domain Authority ranking higher so people offer me money to publish their links. I'm traveling in the summer and need to get ahead on my blog.
Besides, I lost money AGAIN at Steemit. I'm down to .88 cents in my wallet.
Throw the dog a bone. Give the girl a penny.
I started with $1.78 and all I've done is lose money since.
The people here are so nice and supportive. They follow me and comment.
I follow others, upvote, and comment but all I do is lose money.
Frustrated Janice, signing out.