To love someone properly, we need to be prepared to lose them.Jealousy is excruciatingly uncomfortable.

in jealouslove •  7 years ago 

Nws yog thuam heev rau koj tus khub kom koj ib txwm doubting lawv cov lus los yog decency ntawm tus cwj pwm. Nug cov lus nug los ntawm koj tuaj yeem txawm tias ua kev puas tsuaj raws li muaj kev yi hauv qhov ntev. Koj yeej tseem tsis ntseeg siab rau koj tus khub rau ib ntus (tawm ntawm tus cwj pwm tsis zoo), tab sis nrhiav lub zog los pib ua yeeb yam li yog koj ntseeg tias lawv. Yog tias koj tau xyuas tias lawv yeej nyob qhov twg lawv tau hais tias lawv twb tau, ces tsis ua qhov ntawd. Thaum lawv qhia koj tias lawv hlub koj, ntseeg lawv.
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Ib txhia (tsis yog txhua tus) kev khib siab yog tsav los ntawm kev txo tus kheej. "Yuav ua li cas lawv nyiam kuv? Kuv tsis nkag siab tias ib tug neeg zoo li lawv nyiam rau ib tug neeg zoo li kuv!" Peb tsis muaj leej twg yuav tsum to taub meej yog vim li cas ib tug neeg hlub peb. Puas yog Mona Lisa painting paub vim li cas nws thiaj li tseem ceeb? Qhov tseeb, koj tuaj yeem saib xyuas koj tus kheej kom zoo nkauj, tab sis xav txog qhov no:

Muaj zoo dua saib, muaj nyiaj, ua haujlwm, ua haujlwm, cov neeg yau dua ib ncig ntawm peb txhua tus, tab sis cov no yog cov khoom zoo ntawm cov khoom. Yog tias nws hlub nws, nws yuav yog vim muaj qhov tsis tshua muaj neeg, tsis muaj dab tsi zoo uas koj tau hais tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem piav qhia - qee feem ntawm koj cov tib neeg uas lawv txheeb ze uas cuam tshuam, cov hluas, muaj nyiaj, thiab lwm yam. Qee cov neeg nyiam tshaj plaws nyob rau hauv keeb kwm tau zoo down hauv daim ntawv thaum nws los txog zoo los yog muaj nyiaj. Tsis txhob sim 'ua haujlwm tawm' vim li cas lawv tuaj yeem nyiam koj.
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Cov neeg muaj kev ruaj siab heev tuaj yeem muaj kev khaus khaus heev yog tias lawv xav tias lawv tus kheej yuav tsum yog qhov nruab nrab ntawm cov khoom. Cov neeg zoo li qhov no yuav pom lwm tus neeg ua khoom ntiag tug. Thiab tej zaum lawv tsuas yog tsis xav qhia tawm tias "khoom ntiag tug", txawm tias cia li cia lawv tus khub ua luag ntsej muag lossis sib koom nrog lwm tus neeg. Tej zaum raws li ib tug me nyuam yaus lawv tau piam sij. Tab sis tib neeg tsis khoom lossis khoom ua si kom muaj kev tiv thaiv. Yog tias peb hlub ib tug neeg zoo, peb yuav tsum npaj kom poob lawv. Dab tsi? Yog kuv npau taws? Suab nyiam nws, koj yuav xav (thiab kuv muaj kuv lub sij hawm), tab sis hnov ​​kuv tawm.

Tej zaum nws yuav coj txawv txawv hais tias kev khib siab ntau dua txog kev hlub tus kheej dua lwm tus neeg, tab sis kev khib siab ua rau peb tsom ntsoov rau peb tus kheej txoj kev xav ntau tshaj li lwm tus neeg. Kev kov yeej kev khib siab tsis yog hais txog kev ua koj tus khub ntsej muag rau phab ntsa hauv khw noj mov los yog sim ua kom lawv tsis txhob saib lwm tus; nws yuav tsum tau hais txog koj kev tswj koj tus kheej txoj kev xav.
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