Asifa gang rape case Kathua and Unnao case

Kathua, Unnao just forget about it and think.
Think harder, think how to protest, think how to debate, think how to have a spicy conversation about it with everyone and how to start a trend or a hashtag. Right?
No.
Think how to do.
Half of our life just goes by thinking out, planning out things but not doing. Can we ever perform the duty of a citizen first and then look for publicizing opportunities.
Whenever we look onto a problem or a crisis we look for the causes as it assists us with solutions that we can do.
You know when you have been constantly kept away from something, it always attracts you more and more. In this case let’s for once think why did he have to go to such lengths to fulfill such a desire?
Is it because the country views physical relation as a taboo which in turn attracts the youth to be more inclined towards it? Or is it because a man wants to exercise his “superior authority” over the weak ones (hey there feminists!)?
But it surely isn’t that a person thinks about religion before doing the dreadful act but it is the animal inside him which has been aroused by the society through violence and the “so called” education about how to become a man in “every group”. We need psychological understanding in such cases as a human not any blame games between religions as humanity is the only factor that binds us with no conditions applied.
I am shattered being a youth that I don’t know the actual principles of different religions that formed their golden bases, because the base has been cemented on the name of repairing which actually seems to be “ease of using it”.
Going through the sequences of the events I could sense the strong dangerous want of the rapists which definitely outraged me to get on the street to channelize the anger and do something. But is it enough protesting against making strict laws?
It is indeed very important but what is important to notice here is that both the girls could have been saved if they had education may it be sex education or some help with physical education to stop it before it begins after which comes the role of saviors.
We talk as feminists for “equality”! But here we fail to protect ourselves because we keep quiet when any of our male friend is stalking a girl he likes against her wishes? Because we fail to influence the people around us for what is right? Because the culprits are always “others”!
We need to take a pause, a stand and do something. Influence people around, and talk openly about the “taboo” when needed as its normal. We need to make our self as individual strong on our principles in every situation, not always in the “collective debate” .Lets be the one who do, not the ones who see (spectators) and speak only.
DO, DON’T BE SPECTATORS AND DEBATORS ALWAYS as there is always an argument against every argument.
If the man has raped, and that is a crime but if don’t do something productive that is also a?? (You know)
And yes discussion just about communalism in every case is not going to be counted.:-p