It's the little things
My Dustin bought me just because flowers today... He also brought me a hot cup of coffee moments after he kissed me good morning. I didn't do anything remarkable lately to deserve flowers....it isn't my birthday, I didn't accomplish anything extraordinary...
I work a ton, I don't always clean the house as well as I could, dinner is sometimes fast food or frozen food on days when I'm particularly exhausted and some days I fail to brush my hair. I'm clumsy and vulgar....but he loves me anyways, when I'm sleepy, when I cry ugly tears....when I'm being a bitch...he still values me...
It really is the little things
Sidenote: they are actually the big things.
The smallest gesture can let someone know they are appreciated.
Be good to people and they will be good to you. -some krazy girl
I know you wanted to see them up close :heart_eyes:
A few months ago Fuzzy (@officialfuzzy) sent me money to take my family out for dinner, it had been a particularly rough month (fuck you May) and he made a small gesture to try to cheer me up. That same month someone (I'm blaming @bushkill, although he has yet to take credit) sent me flowers. I in turn sent a couple people bitshares telling them to buy a burger. We should all do what we can, when we can. It's the little things....it's the people who make your journey a better one... It's a kind gesture, a kind word, guidance, love and encouragement. Yesterday I "threw" some stuff to a long-term Whaleshares community member, he was down for weeks and needed some love....I don't know that it made his sadness better, but it made my heart instantly full. I bought $5 worth of gas for a stranded and broke young couple last week.... because that day $5 wasn't alot to me...but some days it has been..
I will surely be doing something nice for my dude soon. Not because I owe him one...kindness is not this for that, love and appreciation are not about one upping anyone. He is fully aware that I love him endlessly. His little thing today maybe my heart happy, if I can give him that....then I will...every time.