Life lessons are imbued with wisdom, as often learn the hard way. The most difficult stage of the process, however, is to realize that sometimes not every opportunity lasts forever. At one point, it appears that you have learned something only when it was too late.
If possible, one should understand these things as soon as possible.
1.If you want to do "what you love" have to work three times harder than everyone else
Most people spend their lives doing things they love. Instead, they devote their time to what they are told that they should do (by their parents, friends, etc.).
However, if you can do what you really love, you need to start watching this goal as a privilege, not as something that is due to default. Few are those who can boast such a life. So if you want to be among them, you will have to put considerable effort. Right now.
2.Under the anger there is always fear
Yoda once said the following: " Fear is the path to the dark side . Fear leads to anger; anger leads to hatred; hate leads to suffering. "Whenever we suffer, especially for long periods of time, often we believe that this is due to some external factor. Something you hate. If we can overcome this emotion, we understand that hatred is a conductor of anger - something we hid himself for too long.
Under this anger is often lies fear. Fear of loss of vulnerability. Than to turn your back on things and move on. If you manage acknowledge the existence of this fear, you will see his shadow - that of compassion. And you can move on.
3.Our daily habits form our future I
What we do today is a step forward to "your future self." When the same action is repeated within a week, you activate the change. Gets you a month, you start to notice the first differences.
When you repeat the operation a year or two or five, probably no longer know. You will be changed. For better or worse, your daily habits change. So bet good.
4.Emotions also lend themselves to control
Often associate exercise with certain skills. For example, piano, soccer, etc. However, the same is with emotion. When you exercise to control your emotions, over time, will become a calm and reasonable man who completely rule them.
You can practice humility and forgiveness. Even humor, anger, drama and conflict. Your emotional self is a reflection of things consciously (or not) practice. You are not "born" upset. Just you have practiced this emotion much more than joy to say.
5.Everyone has their own goals
It's clichéd phrase that is often used in a negative context. Here, however, we use a slightly different way. Through her show that at the end of the day we all have to think about yourself. We all have dreams, goals, aspirations, families, friends and half. All aspire to some fundamental things.
There are those who believe without reservation. But the best way to stand firmly on the ground is by accepting that everyone has their own goals. You can not control others. You may not expect them to put you ahead. If you try, you can also succeed for a while, but sooner or later the truth will come out.
Instead, try to help the people around you to realize their dreams and in return, they may help you realize yours. Thus the relationship with them will move more smoothly and in the right direction.
Source: www.sciencealert.com , www.pexels.com
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