Dear Teenage Bros or Sis

Dear Teenage Bros or Sis.

Life may not be as rosy as you think when you get to that adulthood stage of your life....
You see some certain incident can transform you and can also deform you it just depend on the way you treat the incidents....

Lemme take you through this little scenario........
I was coming out of a filling station today and i saw two teenagers probably in their fifteenth or sixteenth years and here is what happened.....

The girl is on school uniform while the guy was on mufti on their sojourn to their destination holding hands and cuddling each other on the street of Lagos... i smiled and this came to my head

Probably the guy had denied himself of some certain house chores or his Oga (Boss) sent him somewhere and he decided to fulfill the boyfriend aspect of picking up his beloved girlfriend which I’m not against though.....

You see as teenage boy or girl its better to lay a good foundation now so that you can build that sky scrapper you desire in life, so that you can raise your children being the millionaire you desire and also make your parents and those around you proud....

The boyfriend and girlfriend of a thing at this early stage of your life will only damage you emotionally, psychologically and physically and also waste hell out of your time....

Take a look at this the time you are meant to do house chores, read your books, go to church, mosque or shrine will be spent in a boyfriend or girlfriend place smooching, kissing, romancing and later lead to pregnancy that you don’t want.

Have you actually sat down to look into the positivity and negativity of the boyfriend and girlfriend of a thing together and what you have gained apart from the negative pleasures of it?

Lemme burst your brain small
Do you know if you start saving those ten ten naira and twenty naira you are spending on that boyfriend or girlfriend can make a might ocean before attaining that adulthood and likewise be a renewed person you desire...

Do you know the right spouse for you will never ever run away from you when the right time comes...

Do you know boyfriend and girlfriend stuffs could debar you what you have destined for your life if you aren’t careful...

Do you know it can damage your progress in life if eventually you both become father and mother at tender age and you might be forced to do what you both don’t desire in your teenage year...

Lemme give a quickie way out sha....
Spend time with God right from your teenage days
Save as much as you can for you don’t know what life incident you might encounter your saving might be your way out
Get a mentor that you can learn from but positive and negative way of life
Your major job in your teenage-hood is to study hard and learn entrepreneurship skills
Be independent to make positive decisions and don’t be influenced by negative vibes of teenage-hood
Be ready to yield to corrections and respect your elders that the adulthood will be easy for you too
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