**Alot of people don't understand that there's a huge difference between being a man and a husband.
Being a husband is a role where you harmonise; Honesty,Unity,Splendor,Buoyancy/Boldness in whatever situation,being able to Assemble/Acknowledge things properly,Nurture and always Defend your home(starting with your wife).
Which is entirely a different route from being a man where you are allowed to be Meritorious ,Ardent and Noble.
The Word Man is three letters and Husband is seven.
In simply terms,you have to work on adding new values to yourself(it's like obtaining new certications/degrees for a job you are applying for).
Which indicates that you have to outgrow the phase of being a man and transit into the Husband level .
A woman on the other hand is quite different from a wife.
To start with,did you notice the reduction in words. it means she has to be streamlined and precise at this point.
A woman is Wise,Organised,Motivating,Appealing and Noble.
Being a wife,you must first ,ascertain the role of a woman,that's the letter W,you must be able to Intensify growth and progress to yourself first,your husband,family and society at Large, you should be able to Focus better than anyone I.e seeing the world and every situation in 360° view(all angles) and finally be Evergreen in whatever you do(Husbands will always respect and Acknowledge wives who are superb at their thoughts,work,and appearance).
"Perfection is not attainable, but if we chase perfection we can catch excellence"
Vince Lombardi