7 things happy couples never think

"Can't be a relationship if there is no commitment, loyalty, if there is no understanding, patience, and perseverance.” – Cornel West

It is easy to make the relationship more complex than that. No need to change the attitude and just the way you look. If you feel that your relationship is sinking, it's the perfect time to get rid of some thoughts which you can pull down.

Here are seven things that do not need to think about how, for the sake of your relationship:

1.My relationship with him/her will help me to solve all the problems

The strongest bond you'll ever have a relationship with you. If you don't feel good about your own face when you begin a relationship means that you are not prepared it. You are able to love someone else if you don't like yourself. And you are not able to learn something on someone else, if you don't understand it.

Learn first to love yourself, you instead accept the idea that someone loves you.

2.We need to be the center of the universe to each other

A good relationship happens when two people support each other, past each other, support the present and welcomes the future, not to try to control something. Find a partner and friends, for whom it is important to encourage ourselves to grow, which will not adhere you that you will let you go in peace and will trust that you will return. It is love and true friendship, and deserves to be waiting for her always.

3.A good relationship always go easy

Incorrectly. Good relationships require sacrifice and compromise. True love does not mean to be there when it suits you, but be there when it is not. If you don't like to take the place of a partner, you can instead of him to be there to support until the day that will learn to smile again.

4.Have to do everything in my power to be loved

Sometimes trying to show the world that we are without blemish, in the hope that we will love and accept. But we can't play the role of someone who does not represent us and should not try it. To love someone doesn't mean you have to leave to be himself. True love makes you stronger, you not remove.

The beauty of us sitting in vulnerability, sincerity, emotions and our shortcomings. When you will take as you and you will decide to be authentic, no need to be perfect, you will be open for a relationship, a real one, to be truly happy and to achieve true success.

5.Forgiveness is not required
Who said revenge is sweet never tasted the taste of forgiveness.

Love is not an experience of his own life, but also to share it. Love to make a million mistakes, most importantly, to be turned into a learning experience from which you learn. Love means patience, optimism, but sometimes I just hug when no more is to say nothing.

Remember that forgiveness applies not only in relationships, where you are, but relationships in your past that failed. If you do it yourself, I need to build the same structure of relations, which collapsed earlier.

6.I don't have time for him/her today

If you leave this relationship, you will overlook you. Understand that today will not come. Be a blessing. Be a friend. Be there at that most important. Make a difference. Take the time to care. Tell us how special for you. Do what will bring him a smile and it will brighten your day. Thus, you will not only be helping a kindred spirit, but you will help you. When you are looking to give happiness to someone, not only that you will find, but you will be even you what happiness is.

7.You need to change for me

The biggest mistake is to think that there is only one way to listen, to talk, to have a conversation or relationship.

The biggest twist of human nature is the need to be appreciated as such. Sometimes we try to be sculptors, image others, because we want to be in one form or another. But these actions and perception vs. reality, because they do not fit. The beginning of love is to leave someone to be themselves, without having to we to build it at their own discretion. Otherwise, we will love your own reflection on them.