Any love that does not have the basis of friendship, like a sand castle built in the waves of the sea

What if people will love, will love and leave in one day? What if all the moments, all the memories built up over the years, all beautiful thoughts, associated with human love, even the fights... what if all disappears? People will love as much? He would know as well? I dare say, that keeps the Holy soul? Many believe that love is passion, it is the chemistry that two people. It's true. Only that it is something very important: friendship.

No, do not have to be friends before you become one. Much more important is what happens after. I write women who don't understand what went on what I ask them: "but when was the last time you talked honestly and openly with each other?” It should be silent. I write men who complain that they are losing with each moment the woman next to them. I ask her, "when was the last time you asked him why he feels bad, what's not to like?” The same silence.

In a relationship between two people, friendship is the fruit of sincere love and love is the fruit of true friendship. When you talk about anything when you are supporting when you listen to each other, when you know, to give, and when you say the word, when you understand a few words and do not attempt without meaning, only then love can grow with each passing day. The friendship magnified into love is probably the most attribute of the souls of men. Appreciate the moments spent together with the man love, listen and love sincerely.

Any love story that does not have the basis of friendship, like a sand castle built in the waves of the sea. – Ella Wheeler-Wilcox