How to be languid in talking with people

How to be languid in talking with people

We live in this world with many people around us in the family, at work, at school and at university, and because man is a social being by nature, he can not live without interacting with others around him, whether to serve an interest or to fill our innate need for communion. We can use a way to talk with the people around us, and here we are in this article about a few of the most interesting ways to talk:

• It is not useful for you to try to improve the level of your word without being in it in your mind and beliefs, for example, try to watch the useful programs on television instead of spending time and useless Read it, read the treasure of the mind, and try to develop your culture and your thinking in all areas.

• After your development of your personal skills, remember that you are talking to others, a friend of friendly tact, not a smile, no matter how pleasant and pleasant you are talking, it does not work without a smile, always smiling as you speak to be in the details of your face before you speak.

• One of the methods of tact is also to treat each person according to his personality, talking to your mother is different from your words with your friend, and this in turn differs from your manager for example .. Try to know the way loved by each person who is closer to his personality and try to make everyone think himself distinctive , As the Prophet peace be upon him treats all my companions in a private fit his character.

• Remember that the first impression is the most important. When you meet someone for the first time, take good care of your words because this interview will build much on them in the future.
  

• The most important thing you have to learn in the bouquet of modernity is to respond to the abuse of charity. A person is not a gentle person who treats others gently if they treat him with similar kindness, but he uses the blasphemy as part of his personality even with those who treat him with abuse: "

• And do not equal good and bad, pay what is good, then that between you and enmity as if he was an intimate companion," Sura separated 34, and left the owners of the difficult mood and worked with charity, and spoke with them so as to calm the angry revolution and respects you even your enemy, and remain in your words at all times.

• Remember to keep your name updated to attract your heart to your conversation, pay close attention to the small details in it, and praise the positive changes in it. For example, pay attention to new clothes, or tell your friend that his face is attractive.

By Rawan Motkal