Fear of approach-where are the roots?

I'll tell you one interesting story I've seen once. There's a kachaet'sja young mom sitting on the swing with some three-year-old daughter in her arms. They're about the same age as the boy and trying to rock the rocker this girl. The young boy took the initiative-the approach, he wanted to meet, to make new social contact. His mother seems to be at the same place, and screaming, "What are you doing?" Where are you going? You can't do that! "cuffs kicks him off the rocker." The guy was in tears, no acquaintance. And who knows what this acquaintance might have brought. For years of friendship, Love, business partnership, or something.

And do you think the young man will want to see people later? Of course, one of the only cases may not play a role, but if it's repeated 5-10-100 times. How will he perceive the surrounding people later?

Years pass, the young boy becomes an adult, wealthy man. Will his beliefs change? Or even as a mature age, he will continue to believe that you cannot approach strangers?