95% of our communications are nonverbal and transmitted through body language and other sensory details. Our bodies don't lie! Whenever you try to be dishonest and hide your true feelings or thoughts your body will give you away! Now maybe the other person is not consciously aware of your deception but unconsciously they are aware of your deception. In the same manner we are aware of the deceptions of others through their body language and nonverbal communications whether we are conscious of those deceptions are not.
We might like to believe or imagine that this is not true, that we can lie to our spouse or to our best friend and they will not know the truth. On some level they do know the truth and on some level we know the truth that they are trying to hide. We might as well admit this and come out in the open about it. Otherwise things really get twisted.
A win-win situation is not possible when deception exists, especially when that deception is not recognized consciously but is recognized unconsciously. The only way for a win-win situation is to be as open and honest as possible in all ways and at all times.
It's far more powerful to harmonize our communications with our body language and nonverbal communications! When we do this we can communicate honestly and openly and we can expect an honest and open response.
Nothing succeeds like excess! I have tried sharing blogs before with limited success. But I've never done anything like what I'm doing right now posting four or five blogs a day! I'm trying to be honest, as honest as possible. But I'm also trying to break through the barrier of resistance which my posts often encounter. I'm posting because I care about this world and about society and I'm worried about the direction it will go if we can't find a win-win situation! This is my way of being honest!
How much the message is nonverbal really depends on what the person says. I think it's less of "knowing" at some mystical level, and more of deep convolutional nets reporting that something must not be quite right in a, well, convoluted way, but you got the gist of it.
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Society is built upon deception and not upon straight up communication. I think that MSM has made that abundantly clear these past few months! We have no way of knowing who is speaking the truth unless we pay attention to the non verbal cues. Thanks for the comment.
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