Did you feel as if you were in control or overwhelmed, on your wedding day? Both of these feelings are very common and are quite common for those who are not used to them. Instead of feeling overwhelmed, or in control, allow yourself to breathe and take some time to relax.
After the arrival of the crowd and the gifts, it is common for a bride to feel overwhelmed. This is because she is surrounded by many people, many of whom she knows nothing about. Most brides realize this and try to plan their wedding around this situation.
As we grow older, we tend to start taking on more responsibility than we are comfortable with. We often find ourselves juggling a lot of things at once and end up feeling overwhelmed, or in control. Yet, we are not putting the care of the guests before our own feelings. Instead, we are taking their needs and disregarding our own.
If you felt in control of your wedding day, then your guests likely felt as if they were in control of their wedding day. Most guests do not have a wedding planner to help them feel in control. However, there are a few steps that can help ease your feelings of overwhelm.
The first step to reducing your feelings of overwhelm, or in control, on your wedding day is to clear your mind of all negative thoughts. While having this kind of thought is normal, it is not a good thing to keep running on autopilot. This way, you will be able to get away from your thoughts, and will be able to notice how overwhelmed you are. You might find that you are becoming overwhelmed by one bad thought after another.
Next, relax and take some time to catch your breath after your wedding day. Often, we become caught up in the rush of work, the excitement of a new relationship, and the heartache of some big loss. Take some time and remind yourself that you will not be all stressed out, and this will help you to start feeling less overwhelmed.
Take the time to let your guests know that you are taking some time off from your wedding day. Invite them to come to your home to help plan for your next event. If you can, talk to your guests about getting together and helping each other to relax, so that you can enjoy yourselves more and feel less overwhelmed.
To truly feel in control of your wedding day, take a little time away, and start feeling relaxed and refreshed. This will enable you to look back on your wedding day and feel happy and grateful for all the happiness that you shared with those you love.