Learning to let go of life Opportunities!

in life •  4 years ago 

Sometimes we have to choose to leave, we have to show our back towards opportunities. It's hard especially if it's your desired thing but sometimes life doesn't give us many choices. I always believe that life is full of opportunities. And letting goes one will never gonna make us weak.

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But, this belief is hard to practice in every case, I understand that. Being positive is always better for life. But we sometimes have to say no to our life opportunities for our own good. So, the question is when and how can we do that? If you ask me the question, I will say I go with the gut feeling. But going with the gut feeling blindly is a big risk. So, making a more intentional and purposeful decision can help a lot.

If you are grateful for what you have, there is no need to be grateful for what you don't have. There are so many people who think to themselves "I don't have any big bills or problems." Or "I'm not rich, so I'm not going to be rich either".

I've seen it many times, people constantly living their own way and being too attached to certain people. I've seen that happen in real life too, and I would probably be in it. I know I would. I am crazy not to pursue the opportunities that come to us. We are not like other people, we get a lot of choices. But we have to make the most of our choices.

Being thoughtful and practical is the basic thing which can help us to choose whether we need to take the opportunity or we need to say no to it. Ask yourself questions, what do you want, why you want it, what will be the consequences, what your life would be without it and so on. If you get more 'Yes' go with it. If more 'No' then say no to that no matter how better it seems.

Building strong emotional status always helps to take the right decision. I sometimes put myself in the situation in my imagination to see what it would be. And it helps to get the right answer most of the time. Also, practicing to be happy with what we have is a great way to teach our brain to say no to opportunities. It's not like, we can't and shouldn't choose better opportunity in our life. It's more like finding the best option through reality.

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