To say Yes is to say No to No

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meharhassan94 (25) · 8 years ago

sometime dear . we like to say yes .. so yes has important in our life

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lukestokes (75) · 8 years ago

I think the concept of loss aversion explains our initial stance of "no" over yes. I also found this interesting:

To accept the proposition A, we better start to introducing non-A thesis and making it ridiculous or unacceptable.

That's really close to what could be considered a straw man argument. It isn't exactly, but it can be really close. Example: if we make non-A out to be ridiculous and it is not, then we have committed a straw man fallacy. I wish every human on the planet had to memorize logical fallacies. This is a good place to start: https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/

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arcange (73) · 8 years ago

@lukestoke: Thanks for your comment.

I think the concept of loss aversion explains our initial stance of "no" over yes

I won't agree with this. Even when they have nothing to loose (or win), people tend to say no or think no at first.

Listen around you ... so many people start their sentence or comment with "no, ... " even if the whole sentence after doesn't contains any negation, even sometimes when it is to approve what has been said previously. The funniest IMO is "no, it's ok".

The concept of straw-man fallacy (you misrepresented someone's argument to make it easier to attack) is also interesting but more focused on the content of the arguments and the opposition between both parts.

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lukestokes (75) · 8 years ago

I linked to wikipedia to hopefully better explain what I mean by loss aversion. To me, it's the psychological underpinning for why people start with no and think no at first.

Humans may be hardwired to be loss averse due to asymmetric evolutionary pressure on gains and losses. For an organism operating close to the edge, the loss of a day's food could amount to death, while the gain of an extra days food could lead to increased comfort but (unless it could be costlessly stored) would not lead to a corresponding increase in life expectancy.

Some studies have suggested that losses are twice as powerful, psychologically, as gains

Basically, we want to maintain the status quo which involves saying "no" to just about every possible thing because most things represent a change in the current state of nature, even if it's just a new piece of information.

Anyway, that's my view on it. Thanks for letting me share my opinion.

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