When I was a child, I thought that making friends was the easiest thing in the world, but I often heard something from my elders: It is rare for a person to meet one or two real friends in his life.
At that time, I was still very young, and thought: This must be because you know too few people.
Later, I got older and had an understanding of interpersonal relationships. I guess what they want to convey to the other party is: to me, your friend is very precious.
After I have experienced more things, my experience of this sentence has become deeper and deeper. In fact, people are very lonely, and it is difficult to really show their hearts to others.
Perhaps, first of all, you must become a person worthy of in-depth contact, so that you have the opportunity to make more real friends.
What kind of people deserve to have a deep friendship? I have briefly summarized it and hope to share it with you.
Take on hardship together and enjoy happiness together
Unlike imagined, it is usually easy to share the hardship together, because everyone's conditions and circumstances are not good, if we don't share the hardship together, we will be powerless.
However, it is not easy to enjoy happiness together. Many entrepreneurs end up in disharmony, not because they cannot endure hardships together, but because they cannot withstand the test of income distribution after success.
People who can maintain a peace of mind in the face of interests and share with you are worthy of friendship.
Not jealous of your strengths, and can tolerate your weaknesses
He will be proud of your strengths; if you have weaknesses, he will not stay away from you, but he will sincerely remind you to improve.
If it is not a matter of principle, even if it does not improve, he will still maintain the original relationship with you.
Such a person is a person who is kind to others and worthy of our association with.
Filial piety to your parents
A filial person is a person who knows how to be grateful. Parents will always be our greatest benefactors. If a person does not even respect and love his parents, then it is difficult to imagine that this person will not betray and betray you at a critical moment.
Being nice to your parents is not a superficial thing, but you can take long-term actions to take care of your parents and accompany your parents, and put your parents first at critical moments.
No need to say more
You don't need to say too much to get to know you, and your outlook on life, world outlook and values are also very close.
You will find it easier to interact with such friends, and even conflicts can be easily resolved.
Finally, if you want to make friends who are worthy of in-depth contacts, first of all, you must become a person who is worthy of in-depth contacts.