As the saying goes: People who know me know why I am sad, and those who don't know me always question what I am sad about.
People who know you don’t need explanations, and people who don’t know you don’t need explanations. What was originally mine will eventually belong to me, and what is not mine will not have to be obtained.
Life is inherently painful, and you don't need to long for the understanding and approval of others. We can't force others to do anything. The only thing we can do is try our best to do our own things according to our own principles, walk our own way, and live quietly.
People live in this world and it is difficult to make everyone happy. No matter how friendly you are, you are hypocritical in the eyes of people who hate you. No matter how you give, in the eyes of those who don't know how to be grateful, you are just an outsider. No matter how hard and good you are, in the eyes of people who like to be jealous, you are just lucky. No matter how generous you are, you are stingy in the eyes of prudent people.
In this world, everyone has their own values. Not many people know you. Sometimes, if you don't explain what you are doing, life will be much easier.
Similarly, in society, everyone has their own unique propositions and personalities. Don't try to change others with your own thoughts, let alone try to control others, and don't ask others to understand you. Others have no obligation.
People who understand you will not explain, they will understand you. People who don't know you, the more you explain, the more misunderstandings they have and the more trouble they will encounter.
Because you are not clear at all, please don't say it. An explanation can sometimes dispel misunderstandings and gain understanding, but sometimes others may think your explanation is a disguise.
If you don’t explain too much when you encounter a problem, it is a wise choice. You will find that you have paid a lot, but others hate you. If it is correct, why explain, time will prove everything. If it is wrong, there is no need to explain, and time will correct everything.
Human thinking is so sophisticated and complicated. In interpersonal communication, if you understand each other, why do you have to say more, and if you don’t understand, why do you have to explain? Those who understand do not need to explain, and those who do not understand do not need to explain.
A mountain does not express its height, nor does it affect its standing in the clouds, the sea does not indicate its own depth, nor does it affect its ability to accommodate hundreds of rivers, and the earth does not indicate its own thickness, but no one can replace it. She became the carrier of everything...
Living in this world, you will meet all kinds of people. If someone knows you, it is inevitable that someone will not know you. If someone believes in you, then someone will definitely question you.
You have no way to determine the thoughts or opinions of others, but the only thing you can do is to remain open and innocent. You don't need to explain. As long as you do your best, you will feel at ease and your conscience will not be condemned.
To be a person does not require everyone to understand, just ask yourself to have a clear conscience, and always believe that people who know you do not need to explain, and those who do not understand you do not need to explain, let yourself be healthy and live happily , This is a kind of happiness.