Writing biology is no easy task. This is one of the hardest things to do because, at first, we have no idea of what we are doing. And most of all, we have NO WAY to know if our approach will be the right one. But I want to share with you my approach to writing a pillory for the deceased.
First of all, you need to take time out to identify the deceased. How is he or she? What about his or her personal qualities? Is he or she an appreciator, a worrier, a jokester, or a romanticist? Perhaps the only way to discover these pertinent traits is to hear them from the deceased.
Second, it's important to determine the right sequence in which to share the tale of the deceased. There are three general formats: recitation, a eulogy, and a eulogy speech. Recitation simply requires that you remember the deceased. Eulogy on the other hand requires that you speak about him or her in such a manner as to indicate that he or she is an outstanding person who has touched the lives of many. Lastly, eulogies are the order of the day. It begins with a description of how the deceased had an impact on the lives of those who knew him best and then ends with a fond remembrance of his or her life.
Now that you have established the correct sequence to follow, you can move on to actually writing the actual text. Keep in mind that this is your opportunity to highlight the things that you believe were his or her finest attribute. Remember, this is your chance to bring out the very best in him or her. Here are some samples of what you can include in your own eulogy:
One memorable episode or moment - Think of one or two key incidents or highlights that defines the life of the deceased. It doesn't have to be something dramatic. Just take note of some small but memorable incident that left a mark on him or her. If possible, try to document the event so that you can look back and reminisce on it when you're ready to deliver your speech. This will give a more personal touch to your speech.
Experience - This is one of the most important aspects that one should never forget. Focus on reliving one or two key moments with the deceased. Take full advantage of this opportunity to show how much he or she impacted you as a person. Remember, you can only share so much about the deceased before they've passed away.
Dress appropriately - You can never go wrong with the choice of attire for delivering a eulogy. Whether you're going for a professional look or comfort, dress accordingly. Avoid being too casual. Go all out if you want to really stand out and have people take notice. Avoid looking boring or even coming off as pretentious.
Practice makes perfect - Delivering a eulogy does not happen overnight. It takes a lot of effort and practice in order to be successful. Be sure that you do not rush into things when giving one. Have a back-up plan in case things don't go according to plan.
Be sincere - The entire point of a eulogy is to honor and remember the life of the deceased. Being a bit less truthful might jeopardize your chances. Honesty is the best policy. Nothing brings people together more than sincerity. Nothing brings a crowd ovation more than sincerity.
Keep it short - You need to keep the message short. Remember, you are not writing a novel here. You are not telling a great history lesson. You are merely offering words of remembrance to someone who has touched each of your hearts. Do not bore people with a lengthy speech. Make your point and leave them wanting for more.
Giving a eulogy is an honor. When you give one, be sure to take pride in it. Follow these tips to make yours stand out from the rest. This will not only make it a memorable one, but it will also make you feel good.
