Well said bro. You're absolutely right there. We are solely responsible for our own happiness and there is always a time when you must deviate from the known and familiar path, to the one that is right for you.
There is no one else that could possibly know what that path is, except for yourself. You know what it is. And it's usually the one that is least popular, as true paths often require brave beginnings.
I know you'll find where you need to go brutha. You just gotta trust in your abilities and make the leap. Trust your heart, depend on no one except for Universal forces, and give it everything you have and you will make it.
A brand new reality is just one leap of faith away...