Principle of the Day

in life •  7 years ago 




Principle:  You cannot change another person; you can only change yourself.


......original photography and editing by bleujay.


























'A Stream's Course'


Principles are timeless truths/concepts/proverbs for our ponderance. 

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Yes indeed, the stream changing course as it meets obstacles in its path. It looks spectacular. I see the sun has come your way!

Thank you for stopping by @meesterboom.

Appreciate your kind,complimentary, thoughtful reply. ^__^

Yes......here's hoping the same for you.

All the best to you and yours.

Cheers.

Always a pleasure to so by for a nice view!! All the best to you too lass :0)

true bleu!

I tried using abrakadabra .. doesn't do the trick either ....
looks like you've had a great weekend!

hmm... let me try open sesame
wait, that's for opening doors :D
just kidding mon ami
I think I had too much fructose from juicing much

take care and have a great week ahead!
xox!

Hiya mon ami.....

^__^

Try C.S. Lewis's wardrobe entrance to another world in his 'Chronicles of Narnia' series.......The Silver Chair is a fav.

Happy to hear you enjoyed the post.

Appreciate you dropping by.....for a cuppa. ^__^

Thank you for your kind wishes.

Take Care. xox!

hmmm .. why, haven't thought of that :D
will give it a try haha

cheers!
let's have ice cream this time?
pretty sunny nowadays ^ ^

xox!

Ice cream....it is.... ^__^

Lovely!

Chat will not come up for bleujay...will have to try again later.....

xox!

Your principle of the day fits well to the photographs, in the nature everything lives in harmony with each other, the greens find their way to sun and if there are some large stones then they just grow next to it, rivers will make their way avoiding obstruction. But why then we people do not learn it from nature and think that we are right and not very keen to change something in ourselves saying that I always done this way and it is another person who needs to be changes not me. Is it an egoism in human personality that we all carry in us, our genes but it shows up only in those who are stubborn and not ready to change. We need to strive to harmony and if everyone does it we may all benefit from it.

Thank you for expressing your thoughts @stef1.

We could learn much from nature.....it is true.

Appreciate you stopping by.

All the best. Cheers.

Great principle! It’s true, I absolutely agree.

It looks very nice atmosphere over there. The water looks cool and refreshing. It’s great that you were among nice nature like this. Beautiful and bright photos. The black and white photo is also wonderful. Great shot! ;)

All the best to you and yours! ;))

Thank you for your kind words @tangmo.

Appreciate you stopping by.

It was just as you say....a lovely place.

So happy you enjoyed the post. ^__^

Thank you for your kind wishes.

All the best.

Cheers.

You are much welcome! Yeah! It's a lovely place indeed. ;)

Wishing you and your family all the best! ;))

Beautiful photography

This principle really speaks to me. Sometimes you want someone to change because you know it would be better for them if they did. Usually you can only change yourself or your own reaction to the situation.

Thank you for stopping by @nat-expressions.

It is true.....indeed.

All the best.

nice work @bleujay, resteem let others see it.

Thank you for your kind words and for the reSteem @dianclasher.

Hello dear @bleujay
Your Principle is very powerful, everything starts with us :)))
Photos are so beautiful, wish you a fabulous day :)

Greetings dear @pepe.maya.

Appreciate you dropping by.

Thank you for your kind and complimentary reply.

Wishing you a lovely week. ^__^

Cheers.

Very beautiful stream, and nice sentiment to go along with it. It looks like quite a bit of water comes through there part of the year. I can't help but discuss that, as I'm a forester at heart and in the working past. Have you ever noticed it sounds like human voices sometimes, when you are down in the stream bed and it is 'babbling' on by? I always found that fascinating.

Thank you for stopping by @ddschteinn.

Appreciate hearing your thoughts.

The sounds of the stream are certainly one of its key features.....for bleujay it is music......had not thought of voices.....fascinating indeed. ^__^

Cheers.

hmm... all real change comes from within i think ...

you can change others ... if you convince them, that they need to change

and they do that themselves ....

ciao!

Greetings @koskl.

Thank you for stopping by.

It is true.....sometimes it happens just that way.

Wishing you all the best.

Ciao!

Absolutely amazing pictures and so pieceful. Just as life should be and so true about changing. I think we to often think we know what's right and are so focus on that decision and path that we can't take in anything else and refuse to change. I think fear of changing is another thing. But for me if you in a situation you don't wanna be I can't expect others to change it for me. The change has to start within myself... My mind and when I do I know I also se things differently. And nature is a natural guide that I wish we could embrace more often.
OK I shit up now.... Lol
Thank you for sharing this and stunning pictures
Cheers! 🌸🌼🌹

Thank you for your thought-full reply @saffisara.

Appreciate your kind compliment.

So true....which brings to mind...the principle....'Motivation is an inside job.'

Enjoyed hearing your thoughts. ^__^

Cheers!

Your welcome my friend. Your words really says a lot and make you think with is a good thing 😉
I'm glad you liked my thoughts and Yes love the frase.... Motivation is an inside job!
Have a wonderful evening. Cheers! 💗

Absolutely, why should you focus on changing others. What others are is their choice but what you can be is entirely upto you. Rather than putting your energy on changing others it is better you focus on your ownself and evolve to be a better person.
These pics remind me of one of our treks we made in a similar kind of stream surrounded with trees. It was so refreshing and soothing.

Thank you for your thought-full reply.

Appreciate you stopping by.

All the best.

Cheers.

Hey bleujay i love the little river where is it

Greetings @tornadoman.

Happy to hear you enjoyed the post.

Cheers.

Very true @bleujay. We have no control over anyone but ourselves and our reactions and responses.

You can lead a horse to water but you can't make him drink.

I used to teach that to my children. It's a great principle and value, really.

Sometimes though I wish I could control other people.....but what a heavy responsibility that would be.

I love the contrast of the still waters with the rough waters.....it confirms your principle today.

Have a lovely weekend. :)

Greetings @countrygirl.

Thank you for your thoughtful expressive reply.....it is so true.

All the best to you.

Cheers.

And again breathtaking photos! They always remind me of my childhood before I moved to the city!

Thank you @elleok for your complimentary reply.

Cheers.

Cool shots, looks like a great place to go for a stroll!

Thank you @vtravels.

A lovely stroll can be had indeed.

Appreciate you dropping by.

Cheers.

i cant even change myself!
bdw that is breathtaking beauty!
awesome clicks

Thank you for your thoughtful reply and compliment.

its the change that only begin with us and we have to lead it from the front :)

Greetings @blazing.

So true.... ^__^

Wishing you a lovely weekend.

Always appreciate your lovely posts.

Thank you for stopping by @rockykelley.

Your kind words are appreciated.

Wishing you all the best.

Cheers.

Yes, very nice Photos. Very nice place. THX

Reminds me of this quote:t0bIm7b.png

awesome photos...

Thanks for the lovely thoughts and photos!

Thank you for your visit.

Welcome to Steemit.

Cheers.

Absolutely right @bleujay...

We can't change other.. we can change only ourselves...

Fabulous and impressing photography... just amazing...!!!!

great photography man..

Life is like a highway you don’t know where your going

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Greetings @tornadoman.

Life here on earth is for the purpose of choosing.

The issue is Christ Jesus....you either accept or reject Him.

Once you beleive in Him.....you do know where you are going.

For God loved the world (mankind) so much that He gave His uniquely born Son (Christ Jesus) that anyone who believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.

.....from the original language of the Koine Greek.

Hope this assists in your journey here on earth.

Cheers.

This principle really made me think a lot, you see I've been through a lot lately, and I found that changing is HARD. I mean we are humans, it's easy for a river to flow,even if there a rocks and what not in it's path you know the current will go on with it's way somehow at some point.
Having said that, in the end things for me jus flowed well, smoothly, like a river I had rocks in the way, sometimes I felt tired, like in a pond, but things started to flow, just like a river.
All this to say thank you mate, this post made me remember that life it's not easy, it's not supposed to be, we just need to flow a little bit more.

Thank you for your thoughtful reply.

Wishing you all the best.

Welcome to Steemit.

It begins with you. We must be the change we seek. Thanks for this inspiring piece!

very nice photos dear friend

Lovely to hear from you @beautypics.

Thank you for your kind words.

Sehr gut danke 💗

  ·  7 years ago (edited)

Danke @paradise.ati.

Thank you for visiting. ^__^

Ahh....

You cannot change another person; you can only change yourself.

Just like this river.........It couldn't change the stones acting as obstacles, the trees falling in its way.......but it changes its way and somehow gets through everything to reach its aim !!! :)
Nice pictures @bleujay

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my principle in steemit i commented on, did upvote even though it was a bit, to respect it and follow it

Greetings @husana.

Thank you for your kind reply.

Welcome to Steemit.

It is absolutely true! We can never change people, whatever we do to please them.
Nice shots, keep it up :)

Amazing photographer..
You are a good man of photographer

all the photos are beautiful, but I am confused with your proverbs, is not someone able to change the behavior of others by way of educating, guiding, for example the parents against their children.
or do not I understand what you mean?

Greetings @longberry.

Principles are guidelines of truth for living for the adult/ matured person....primarily.

Certainly in any training/teaching situation the objective is to train/ teach for a change in the person's thinking leading to behaviour change...........not the person's personality.

Learning to respect another's volition/ choice is key to understanding the principle for adults and children.

Hope this assists in understanding the principle.

Great work....

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