No one in this world can raise a hand and say that I have never been a victim of someone's mistakes while taking decisions.
We are victims of our parents' decisions, of our leaders decisions, our friends decisions and our own decisions.
I really don't want someone to become a victim of my unjust or wrong decisions
Neither I don't want to be a victim of my unjust decisions
I will try to make this article as short as possible and as enjoyable as possible for you to understand because I don't want to become a victim of your wrong decisions
There are 4 things to take into consideration before you take any solution:
1. Yourself
Before you take any decision consider how that thing is going to affect yourself, yourself means your body, your soul and your image in the society. Outweigh the benefits and ask yourself the following Questions ;
🔆Is this thing not going to harm my body? Today or in the future?
🔆 Is this thing not going harm my soul, here the soul I mean your conscious and subconscious mind, your inside YOU.
changing your humanity, your nature, your thinking are some of the affected soul.
🔆 After doing this what is the image am going to remain within the society?
2. Your offsprings
Most of us are still facing the problems caused by our parents' wrong decisions. Some are poor because our parents didn't saved enough for our future, you have not gone to the college because your parents have not planned that, you live like an orphan because your parents loved themselves and divorced you're, you're and you're because of them.
Then let me ask you Do you wish the same to happen to your children or any of your offsprings in general? I know your answer is a big
NO
.So always take into consideration and ask yourself
Is this not going to affect my children in a negative way?
how about their children, and so on.....?
3. Consider the group
Here with "group" I mean your community, your country, your society.
Raise your word if you have never been a victim of a wrong decision of a team leader, community leader, president of the country?? Raise 🙌.
So always consider the group when you're going to take any solution that can affect them in any way.
The last is
4. The Kind
Here the kind I mean human kind.
Here you can ask yourself that which decision can I take and affect human kind and think there are none. You're wrong.
E.g: ✔ At that time when you're releasing the toxic gas in the air that is going to affect the human kind's atmosphere. You may play a small role but you'll be a part of the results.
✔ You can invent any material, object or anything that you know is going to harm the human kind.(nucleic bombs, viruses...)
✔ You can invent ideas or theories that you know that their practices is going to harm the human kind.
🚩So always in any decision think about that human kind that are not in control of what you're doing or you're going to do.
To conclude, if you're going to take any decision think of today's and tomorrow's effects.
Think also about the effects of your decisions on yourself, your offsprings, your group and whole man kind.
know that there is no good solution when one have not considered all of those things.
⚠Images source: all images used are randomly chosen from Google images.
By Jado
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Accepting other people's decisions without a personal "conscience check" often leads to future cognitive dissonance and psychological turmoil.
And it doesn't take a long, drawn out analysis of "Pros" and "cons" to make up your mind.
Simply put:
If it doesn't "feel" RIGHT, that's always a reason to pause. In other words, there's always a reason why your gut and your head are not copacetic with each other.
Enjoyed your article. Thanks.
Namaste, JaiChai
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Indecision is also a decision. We need to think carefully and not to decide quickly. We are responsible in our decisions. Thank you for the inspiring post:)
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Thanks a lot @orhem that's really a good additional point
Am glad you get inspired
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Found you on Facebook and reciprocating for an upvote. Thanks!
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Very true, we should consider these key things before committing to a decision. Although this is not always easy. :)
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@insideoutlet yeah not so easy
Thanks a lot for the feedback
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This article encourages readers to think, nice motivation post.
I will start to fallow you, upvoted mate :)
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Thank you @interdeus
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Awesome wise advices you gave there, @bmotives! U have the smaller picture as well as the big picture in mind when you do the consideration. Very educational post! Hope to read more from you, keep it up!
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It is always amazing to listen to a sincere comment like yours.
Thank for motivating me to do more.
Thanks a lot @happycrazycon
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Thank u @bmotives for this lifequotes "always ask urself : is this think not going to harm m Body, Today or in the future!?"
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Good advices! I learnt to think twice before taking any major decision.
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Yeah thinking twice
Thanks a lot @lymepoet
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@bmotives Motivational and inspiring words. Thanks for sharing.
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@tony19r thank you for your time reading this
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