Love yourself first and everything else falls into line!

in life •  4 years ago 

Loving thyself should come automatically. But our guilt, self-blame, a lake of understanding about thyself, having less connection with our inner self doesn't let us induce self-love. But I guess, we don't have any dought that self-love can make our life better. Just like the saying, 'Love yourself first and everything else falls into line'. It actually works the same in life.

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There's a common misunderstanding that 'we all love ourselves'. But if you notice carefully you will see this is not actually true. Many of us continuously talk negatively about themselves, many harm themselves physically and emotionally. But one common form you will get to see and that is a lake of self-care. Because people don't even think it's necessary to take self-care and don't accept that it's the first form of self-love.

You already have got the clue, how to induce self-love. But you may find it difficult to practice and incorporate this into your life. Because our life pattern and lifestyle doesn't allow us to think much about ourselves. But you have to understand that if you don't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. Because our love for every other thing, no matter if it's our partner or offspring; it can't last long if we don't love ourselves.

Moreover, self-love comes with a lot of mental benefits. It brings peace of mind because we know that we will be there for us alone if no one supports us. This understanding can serve great purposes in life. And this impact on our life as well as others. When a person loves and cares for himself, he naturally feels to take care of others. But in this way, we shouldn't be self-obsessed.

I hope these gonna help you a little bit!

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