For the last four years, I have carried this jar around, with the following simple instructions, a notepad and a pen.
“ Write a message, read a message. The pen is a powerful instrument, use it wisely, kindly and with love.”
It has travelled all over Australia, and now rests in a little corner of my shop.
Message From A Stranger started as an idea to increase customer engagement at my market stall. I wanted something free that would intrigue people, start conversations and be memorable. For the first year, Message From A Stranger travelled with me to well over a hundred venues across Australia. From cities to small outback towns, people from all places and walks of life have exchanged messages through this jar. During this time, my husband and I were traveling around in our camper van named Sergio, making things on the road and selling our label at markets on weekends. Occasionally after a particularly tiring weekend, we would grab a bottle of red wine and sit in a park to read through the messages. It was gorgeous.
These days, I rarely open the jar, it lives on it's own as a vessel for peoples thoughts.
Even though the instructions are short, people seem to instantly understand the concept. The pen is eagerly picked up, a message written and one retrieved from the jar. Some share their message with me. For the most part people read it, smile, then tuck the note into their pocket. The content of which will forever remain a mystery to me. A message from one stranger to another.
The jar is currently on an inconspicuous bench in my shop. I am amazed at how many people find it. It is not in sight of my counter, but during the day I regularly hear the glass lid clink. This makes me smile.
I have never censored the messages, or given people instructions on what to write or what not to write. People can write whatever they choose. Amazingly, almost all the messages exude positivity (at least the ones I have seen). Once at a market, a customer got a note (in barely legible child's handwriting), that said something about poo. Hey that is one in hundreds, possibly thousands of messages. You might get the odd message with a name, town or age written on it but generally messages are silent as to the author.
Today was rainy and cold, my shop was quiet. It was an indoor daydreamy kind of day. So I sat down and opened the jar. This my dear Steemers is what I found.
Enjoy.
Until next time,
xx Isabella
Why did I never think of this before!!!
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To this day, my husband and I both claim that we came up with the idea. I am sure it was me, but he is sure it was him. The concept has many applications. Take it @azaan, use it, it will bring you joy.
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Good on you bridgetbunchy!
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Why thank-you @cryptobro
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really a creative idea
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Thank-you @seasi06.
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As a child I sent a message in a bottle to establish contact with the outside world. Until now no feedback hahaha
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I think I did this too once. But it would have been in the southern ocean with the current headed to the south pole. One day on a beach down the bottom of Western Australia where I grew up, a green coconut washed up on the shore. It may have fallen off a ship but otherwise the nearest tropics for coconuts to grow is thousands and thousands of miles away. I wonder where your bottle ended up.
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What a lovely idea! Makes me wish I had a shop of my own to place a jar in.
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I always thought that a public little stand somewhere would be fun too! Maybe in a park, or down a main street. So many possibilities.
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it is very useful your stories of foreigners live useful message
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This made me cry. What a moving post!!!
i'm currently struggling in a relationship and it is very tempting to be negative. But i've been shown many times that i need to remain positive and be the example i wish to see.
Inspired! Thanks! upvoted, followed, shared
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You are most welcome @magdalenaruth. Sorry to hear you are struggling but looking up to the shining sun always helps. Stay positive :)
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Funny you should say that... i took pics of the sun this ,morning, and sun gaze in evenings as much as i can!
i love your jar idea! i've done a similar thing in that i like to give a jar of notes saying wonderful, encouraging things to someone for a gift. Your post has reminded me, so that now i plan to do this for my sweet granddaughter turning 9 in just 2 days. She and her Mom live a distance away.
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That is a fantastic idea!!
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Glad you like it @gikitiki
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Now I want to visit your store :((
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Well you can always write a message here and I can transcribe it and put it in the jar for you. That way a little part of you has visited :)
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love this - what a way to bring a smile to someone new
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I love finding free little quirky things in shops, so it is nice to be able to offer up my own. It has been pretty popular over the years and I see it pop up on Instagram from time to time too!
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Fantastic idea, Bridget! People rarely even use a pen to write on anything these days, so getting them to connect with others in this way has become something of a lost art. You will revive it again! Good on you!
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It is true. After spending years switching between organisational apps, I have reverted back to good old pen and paper. Someone told me recently that the physical act of writing carries far more emotional weight and purpose then typing. So you should always handwrite your goals and not type them up.
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i very much agree with this! Usually i do better with any project if i jot it on paper somewhere in the process.--- And i just have a "thing for paper"!
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"Peace starts on the dinner table #govegan" is the best one for sure.
There will be no true peace until people stop slaughtering the billions of animals that perish each year just so selfish beings can eat their flesh and poo it out the next day.
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That particular message had written on the back but scribbled out - Vegan is the best. I think 'peace starts on the dinner table" was much better :)
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What a wonderful idea!
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Hey traveller! Are you home yet? I suppose I am used to plane flights of epic proportions to get anywhere from down here in Australia. It is a 5 hour plane flight just to visit my parents and that is not even leaving the country. But wherever you may be @opheliafu thanks for taking the time to read this. Message From A Stranger is lovely. I think even if I close my shop one day the jar will end up in my home.
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Me and my sea legs got home late last night, I've only had a few hours sleep but I'm wide awake after your lovely post!
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Now letters in bottles evolved to Steem. But hard copy still give some warm feeling
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Oh yes it has! There is definitely something cool about all the different handwritings and ink on paper.
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Thank you Thank you. Love love this concept. I think I will adopt this in some schools and make it a year long project, humanity.
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Brilliant idea. Children seem to really respond to it. Definetely take the idea, use it and don't forget to Steemit :)
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what an incredible and inspiring idea! upvoted this because it put a smile on my face and would really love to try this
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Thanks @andressilvera. Feel free to take the idea, use it and build on it.
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I love this ;)
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Anything that can expand minds is a gift
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What a beautiful way to describe it. Thank-you @coloured-content.
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Truly a wonderful idea, this should stick in the world soon. Someone will definitely create an online version of this concept. Which would be cool too.
Have a great day! Love the post!
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I'm in love with this idea!
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