Great post! For me, learning to be selfless and not having to be right about meaningless topics was the key to my current 12 year relationship. I was always the type who put myself first and I always had to be right... That mentality cost me several failed relationships and one divorce. I finally woke up and started putting my partners’ feelings first and stopped caring if i was “right”. I try to always ask my partner how’s she’s feeling and how her day went. Simple stuff like that goes a long way in making life easy and happy.