One of a fathers toughest moments

in life •  7 years ago 

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Steem here is one of the moments that you don't typically see unless your watching a movie or music video.

 


Sorry the camera cut off thats why it's broken down in to 2 different videos.

 


 
Steem, what your viewing on the above video is the car that my 3 children are in leaving so that they can go back to their Mom's house whenever she gets home might I add. You see my children go back and forth they see their mom well let me rephrase that they go to their mother's house for 18 days of the month and they are at my house 12 days of the month, this obviously wasn't what I wanted but if you follow me or you've seen some of my post you probably already know this. Anyways the reason for this post is so i could actually share one of the most gut wrenching moments with you, you always see on music videos such as puddle of mud (the song blurry) and movies with these types of situations in them you always see the scenes and parts where the Dad has to watch the kids leave and while doing so you see the tails lights of the car. Well its not actually just on these types of things its actually real..yes thats right it fucking sucks too.. as you see those tail lights you know if you were to not let the driver leave or you were to say go get fucked they want to stay home it takes all of a few minutes before the police show up, courts get back involved and Bam...!?!?!?! You lose the time you already have with them. Anyway if your a parent, or someone about to go through this find another way or make it as peaceful as you can...

 


Disclaimer The image used in the header of my post can be found on lifesitenews under heartbroken father

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      ·  7 years ago (edited)

    I can't stop repeating how caring and loving Dad you are.
    12 days a month aren't too much of course, less than a half but they're still with you, and not for 1-2 hours a week.
    You know, in Russia as a rule it's so, the court is almost always on the mother's side and they let communication with kids but it can be very limited (if mom proves it's the best for them).
    Your variant can be not the best for you for sure. you take their leaving so close to your heart, they're your soul and your life, but nevertheless it's not the worst variant, and in 18 days they will be with you again!
    does their mom say smth bad about you to them? to make them love you less and be enemies with you? it's a common practice often...-((
    do the kids take this variant of communication well? do they like it? aren't they tired to move twice a month?
    but still it's not the worst...they see you and their mom, it's so important for them..

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      ·  7 years ago 

    @taliakerch you know i look forward to your comments.. And she tries to bad mouth me but they get protective quick they will be with me in time march 2nd im going back at their mom for custody ill die luterally die fighting to get them home

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        ·  7 years ago 

      are you ok??
      even don't post anything..
      the 2nd of March is close!

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        ·  7 years ago (edited)

      oh..it's so wrong of her..
      I don't like to judge people, but as for Mom she is so much wrong! Even if you're the worst in the world for her personally, but you're their dad and all tries to make them be against you are so devilish and stupid...
      I know what you speak about, because my native brother has a similar situation. He has 2 sons, and they are still not officially divorced and they live in one flat still with his wife, but they are not a couple for some years already, they just can't decide a flat problem (he is too kind and noble just to throw her away of HIS flat, she is their mom and he respects her though she spoiled last 10 years of his life-(( And living in his flat she still tries to make kids be against him! She and her mom do all the best to prove to the sons that Dad is bad, he has betrayed the family, he doesn't love them etc...
      My brother suffered so much when they succed and kids started to trust them and be closer to Mom not to him, and only recently the situation has started to change, and kids have stopped to see an anemy in their Dad...
      How stupid some women and some mothers are...

      don't they understand they just destroy normal kid's perception of the life and the family? Their own egoism has won maybe...

      Just be strong, you ARE strong I know, and your kids love you!

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        ·  7 years ago 

      hello dear ,how r u i think ur well ,i need ur help and i need ur facebook ID name

      my facebook name is Azib Hridoy and my email name is [email protected]

      plz message me on facebook inbox

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          ·  7 years ago 

        Those movies, videos, and songs, art imitating life,a life that can often be unintentionally cruel. How can something so beautiful, something that brings us the happiest times and the most joy - our children - also take us to such depths in their absence? For every positive there's an equal negative? I don't know, but I feel your pain.

        Thanks for the bravery to share what many others feel .... Geoff

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          ·  7 years ago 

        @poorcirculation That is one of the most realist comments Ive ever read when posting here on steemit. Thanks for checking out my post

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            ·  7 years ago 

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              ·  7 years ago 

            I am so sorry you have to go through his. My husband and I have discussed this type of thing at length. We have had our share of problems, but I cannot imagine shuffling our two boys back and forth. I don't exactly know how bad it feels to see those taillights but I am guessing it's breaks your heart a little each time. :(

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                ·  7 years ago 

              Sorry man. Hope things get better
              Here's an upvote

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                  ·  7 years ago 

                nice post & also great thanks for sharing...

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                    ·  7 years ago 

                  Hmmm hope thinks get better. Be strong

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                      ·  7 years ago 

                    i like this movie or music video so nice post.

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                        ·  7 years ago 

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                          ·  7 years ago 

                        great one post........

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                              ·  7 years ago 

                            wow very nice life

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                              This post has received a 90.48 % upvote from @sleeplesswhale thanks to: @carterx7.

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